What do you consider as a swinger?
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Posted:Jan 7, 2014 5:55 pm
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2020 1:03 pm
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We had a instant message from a single guy one night, from a different site, that brings me to ask yall this question.
What do you consider a swinger?
Here is why I ask.
According to this person, who's profile showed he was single male but was trying to convince us he was a couple, we did not qualify as a swinger. Here is what he said. Swingers are those who swap couples and only for penetration, oral does not count. He went on to say that if you just hunt for the unicorns(single males or females) you just have a fetish or one of you have jealousy issues and can not stand to see your partner with someone else.
Here was my reply. We have enjoyed couples in the past and as luck has it my wife enjoys being with other females and really gets off watching and joining me with other females. He did not buy it. Well we have been with several couples and I assured him it had nothing to do with jealousy and rather a preference of what my wife enjoyed. I am not one to care what other people think or say but for the sake of getting another blog done for the month I leave it up to yall to answer the question and feel free to leave your comments or answer.
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Friends with benefits
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Posted:Dec 8, 2013 9:32 am
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2013 7:09 am
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I was chatting with a coworker one day and somehow we got on the subject of costume themed swingers parties. As it turned out they were curious about the lifestyle and they had thought about getting their feet wet and had a previous vanilla experience with another couple. My husband and I had been to a few of the local parties and enjoyed the scene even though we don't normally play as we prefer to meet in a more private setting. The one thing we noticed about the parties was there seemed to be cliques and we did not feel comfortable just walking up and joining in. Well I checked the parties calendar on SLS and saw that there was another party coming up in a few weeks and I asked my friend at work if they would be interested in going and I told her that if she was not comfortable they could leave.
The days prior to the party we talked quite a bit and started texting and we learned a lot about each other and she asked if we would be interested in meeting for dinner one night and we could let the husbands meet. A date was set and we met at a local sports bar restaurant and enjoyed a good evening of conversation and drinks. As the date closed in on the party she would text me pics of herself in different outfits and ask what I thought about them and I would show them to my husband. Of course he did not have any complaints about seeing them. On the night of the party we agreed to meet at our house since it was on the way and it would give us a chance to hang out and chat before going to the party.
At the party things were jumping and there were a lot of people there along with plenty of eye candy. We learned that the 4 of us enjoyed watching people and we set back and enjoyed the atmosphere. After about 2 hours at the party the girls decided they wanted to see if we could get a private room for all of us just see where things go. Lucky for us there was one room left and we entered and locked the door. We talked for a few minutes and started making out with our own spouses and then us girls started rubbing on each other. Before long we were all naked and enjoying our own spouses and then I asked if they were interested in swapping partners and they agreed. We really had a good time that night but I got the short end of the stick and her husband had trouble getting it hard, while my husband went for what seemed like hours with her. No big deal as I really enjoy watching my husband with other women as it really turns me on and he always gives me what I need when we get home.
We talked about our night at work a few times and agreed we were gonna do it again since we both had a good time. We met one more time as a couple and her husband still had troubles getting it up and again my husband served us both.
Fast forward several years. We kept in touch since we both had different jobs and she went thru a divorce, which she kept to herself and never talked about it until it was almost finished and it drug on for several years. I asked her if she wanted to join us for dinner one night and she agreed. Conversation came up about the swingers parties and I was surprised when she said she wanted to join us for another party. Needless to say we have never had a bad time with her and have played several times since then and even had nights when we just met for dinner out. The one thing we have noticed is that as she gets back into the dating scene she seems to have other options and we don't here from her as much as before. We sure did enjoy the friends with benefits we had with her and wish her well but I don't think this will be the last we here from her.
Seeking applications for another bifemale who enjoys being with a couple.......
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