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Just me.  

rm_swinger2828 65M
36 posts
6/4/2010 11:41 pm
Just me.


I wanted to start my own blog for many weeks but somehow something would crop up at the very last minute. Well, here I am now.

Joined this site after reading articles in the newspaper about "Game for some swinging" in July of 2008. It said, "there is a new trend in town. And most may frown upon it, but many are practicing it in secret".

After joining, it took me two to three weeks to read through all the local comments and blogs before I started to comment. I was full of enthusiasm then.

I was even appointed as an assistant Moderator in one of the groups. Not anymore now, after I was snubbed by a members of that group. In fact, I asked to be relieved of the post after I got emotional and stressed. Friends called up and said this is a game and if someone don't fancy you, just move on. Another asked if I was in love with her. No way. Treat her like my , maybe, because during the few months of exchanging sms and mails, I never mentioned about sex. Got to know her likes and dislikes and even had the thought of giving her treats with the food she liked. All this is now just wishful thinking, it can't be fulfilled. Anyway, she seems to be happy in her group and I wish her well.

I'm here to exchange ideas and comments with people with the same interest. All this while I have never snub, cheat, harass, threaten, intimidate, victimise or abuse any individual or group. I admit, sometimes my comments are sarcastic. Most times my comments are teases.

I hold strongly to the saying, 'do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you'. What about you?

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rm_swinger2828 65M
841 posts
6/15/2010 5:58 am

Thanks for being so kind. So I'm not

You don't consider the people in this site your friends, they are just your acquaintances, right?
Me??? I'll accept whatever you want me to be.


clppo 55F

6/12/2010 9:51 am

You think you are crazy?
From all I read so far, I did not find any fact to justify that.
So, I don't call you crazy.

Friends, you asked. And how many I have made so far.
I am just wondering....
on a site as this,
how do I define my idea of a friend?


rm_swinger2828 65M
841 posts
6/10/2010 11:31 am

No, you didn't convey it wrong nor I got you wrong. I knew what you meant. Be friends and see where it will lead us to, right?

Don't worry, I'm manic. I'm sensible enough and will not ask anyone to do anything they do not wish to do, my last statement in my blog above, remember?

How many friends have you made so far? How do you find them? Definitely not as crazy as I am, right?


clppo 55F

6/10/2010 8:31 am

OMG
Did I convey it wrong or you got me wrong?

I mean to say, my simple start off comment has taken us to become....two friends in support of each other!
What were you thinking of??!!
Oh, I do get what you meant.
And I believe I have more substance in me to even consider that.

The advantage of blog visiting is, we are able to make some simple and easy friends along the way. Which is why I am here, visiting blogs most of the time and not keen on other activities.

Know what I mean.


rm_swinger2828 65M
841 posts
6/9/2010 10:22 am

I don't know where a simple gesture by you will lead us to. No, no, its not going to lead us to what all the guys here will lead their ladies to (know what I mean?).

We have become two friends already??? If it is, then what are friends for? A friend in need is a friend in deed, right?

Thank you for dedicating your first blog to me. I'm lost for word. Do I deserve such an honour from you? I'll be waiting to read what you have to say. Hope it won't be long or else my neck will be as long as a giraffe's.

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clppo 55F

6/9/2010 7:48 am

Wow! I started off with a simple comment which couldn't get any simpler. And see now, where it has taken us....

Two friends in support of each other!!

And you take my word....
should I ever start blogging in future, I will dedicate my first blog post to you as a token of appreciation for all your positve remarks and support to me. That is for sure.


rm_swinger2828 65M
841 posts
6/7/2010 10:59 pm

Oh! no, I didn't mean to say you have to leave when I waved goodbye. It was meant to be 'thanks, bye and see you soon'. Sorry, if I have send you the wrong message.

A million thanks for your support. Yes, I do notice that you only post once in other bloggers blog. I am indeed fortunate

I am dieing to see you blog. I'll give you the support you gave me, mutual support. Okay?

Now you have given me 2 goodbyes, that mean you are leaving for good????? No, please don't. I'll .


clppo 55F

6/7/2010 4:26 pm

Oh! You waved goodbye... Does that mean I have to leave this post ..? But never mind .

I know very well, this feeling of appreciation as someone comments. Which is why I am posting more comments than usual as starters on this post. For motivation and support in your writing. Mind you, I do love seeing others write.

Above any other activities, my main interest here on this site is blog visiting. So, no time spent on blogs is ever too much for me.


rm_swinger2828 65M
841 posts
6/7/2010 5:56 am

Do I flatter you?? Your comments are really good and so I have to give credits when I see them.

You are very observant. Yes, there are more guys than gals. For me, I comment in both guys and gals blog when I read interesting topics.

There's this good feeling when someone comment in my blog. Hope your writing comments in my blog will not take too much of your time.

Thanks and


clppo 55F

6/6/2010 10:32 am

Oh, you do flatter me so...!
Thank you so much for your encouragement.

But I am more comfortable as an observer and comment as I can. I must say, I am still new here on LesbianPersonals and having not much experience yet for writing material to start a blog. Perhaps, much later.

Again the factor is; too many guys than gals here. Many a time, some guys comment on a lady's blog, simply to get the attention of the lady and nothing else. This is part of the reason why we see so many comments on ladies' blogs. We do not often see a guy commenting on a guy's blog. Correct me if I am wrong, but that is my view.

Responses are not vital. What matters is you express your thoughts and feelings as you write. And good reading material is just about all that. I know I am one who is all out for good reading material be it a guy's or a lady's blog.

Well, I will be watching out for your blog and comment as I can.

All the best to you always.


rm_swinger2828 65M
841 posts
6/5/2010 12:22 pm

Thanks for your compliment, much appreciate it.

Seen you too with your substantial comments, outstanding.

Why not start your own blog? Guess you have more to write than I do.

Nowadays, I don't comment much in my group after the incident mentioned above. With my own blog, I can write what I want.

Honestly, I didn't expect anyone to respond to my blog, seen it too often in other guy's blog. When a lady blog, its a different story altogether.

Once again, thanks.

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clppo 55F

6/5/2010 1:14 am

More than agree with you on your last statement.

Been seeing you here so often as a blog commentor with lots of sound and substantial comments. Good to see you have started your own blog.

Happy blogging.


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