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I'm all for women being assertive...
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Great blog my friend and you know some men just have issues with assertive women. I have had to deal with that a couple of times in my life..
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I grew up with three sisters no brothers, worked in a career where women were common in management. I believe in equal opportunity in all aspects of life: career, family and dating. I enjoy being approached as well as approaching women.
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Not being so assertive myself, I have no problem with the lady leading the way.
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9/13/2018 12:22 pm |
I see each of us as equals. If your attracted to someone, make the move. How else are you going to know if the other party is interested? Notice I didn't mention male or female in the previous? Because it shouldn't matter. Tell em' "I like your hair, do you have it done near here?" or " You have some large arms, do you work out?". Kinda cheesey but you get the idea.
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See someone you like. Go for it! If men are put off by this then they may be insecure boys. Let's not make this too complicated........
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9/13/2018 12:30 pm |
oh my god, are you kidding me? why wouldn't I like a woman to be assertive. I can say no if I don't like it as much as a woman can. Being sought out by someone is flattering and great for the ego. I say women, bring it on!!
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9/13/2018 12:30 pm |
Being assertive eliminates a lot of the confusion about intent. Such as, does a flirt on here mean anything?
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I can't change who I am for anyone...my parents brought me up to believe I could do anything I wanted and when I was a young divorced woman with a child I fought hard...and won...the right to be treated the same as the men in my chosen career in respect of pension rights and death in service benefits for my daughter. I also had no problem in making the first move with men. ~~Anais Nin~~
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Like the majority on this blog, i have voted for option C, although I think there is still the old mentality, and it is still strong amon women too. I have read comments of old in blogs on here about men not really being interested if tey don't pursue you relentlessly But not all men are the same and frankly most women have no idea about the feeling of constant pursuit and rejection year after year decade after decade, and shooting men down brutally without understanding that it often takes a certain amount of courage for nervious amd shy men to make the initial approach But assertiveness in sexual matters can look ugly too When I load IM (yes it is fucking useless) there was a fellow Scot male, who was too stupid to even fill in his profile correctly as he had a male pic but his gender as woman, seeking women. He boldly stated that if you were what he was looking for, he would NOT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER (his shouty upper case not mine) No do people out there think that comes across as attractive, regardless of gender?
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9/13/2018 1:23 pm |
I like it alot
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I personally don't see anything wrong in a woman making the first move. Here or in a non online setting. I'm sort of funny in the aspect of thinking some words get twisted into meaning more than they should. I know it's semantics, but I don't see it as assertive. It's just a woman who has confidence in herself. If a guy can't handle that confidence, then that's on him, not her. To me, confident women are sexy women. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I am a woman and I don't like to be assertive but I do it anyway and have had good results. Does that even make sense? Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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9/13/2018 10:16 pm |
][ voted other. Equality is just part of life ][ don't argue with. /\/0 one can survive without the other. ][ Am at the juncture now that the logistic*z are too out outlandish to negotiate. Who would drag an olde K/\/ight out of hiz realm expecting the in S/-/ining Armour to still S//-/ine ? This place,,, LesbianPersonals,,, is a Sex Casino Therapy Clinic. ][ Am safest Observing (\/)y amusement now. The Young one*z exercise their flirtatiousness and are amusing. They say "Age is just a number,,," till You pull it out of a /-/at,,, ,,, it*z \/\ot the common denominator. ][ Am that ][ Am, and ][ Am Thankful ~ tY***H*u*N***N*** good one !
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a super blog....quite interesting
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9/14/2018 7:16 am |
I wish more women were assertive, I really dislike the cat and mouse game, it may be why I like older women more than younger ones. Older women know what they want but some are to shy or pre-programmed to play they game.
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It is a pleasure to be with a woman that knows what she wants, where she is and is not afraid to allow me to know her wishes, I have learned that the women of the world have control of half of all the worlds money and are sitting on all else that is worth anything.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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9/14/2018 9:32 pm |
Wish more women would make the first move
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9/15/2018 3:40 am |
If women were more assertive, it would make life easier for some of us with fear of rejection.
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9/15/2018 5:42 pm |
it certainly would. Now when are you going to ask me out
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9/17/2018 6:46 am |
When it comes to dating it makes no difference. What is important is the cost of the date is shared equally; the woman pays for half the cost.
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Women being assertive is best for me!
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9/24/2018 1:27 pm |
old school
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