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Attention Gold Members!  

oshkj 73M  
6 posts
2/24/2015 10:14 am

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11/8/2019 8:45 am

Attention Gold Members!


If you're attracted to a standard member, SEND HIM/HER A MESSAGE!!!
Standard members can't do anything with a flirt or being added to your hot list. They can respond to a message.

oshkj 73M  
19 posts
8/13/2015 12:13 pm

Why are men so scared of advertising that they're bi or bi-curious? Women do it all the time.
Aren't we (those in the lifestyle) open enough to acknowledge that some men may also like venture into same sex relations?
Jesus!! Get some balls!


oshkj 73M  
19 posts
2/25/2015 8:58 am

All I'm saying is at least give us a chance. True, there's a lot of people on here who just want to look and 'feed their fantasy', but if you're willing to cough up the money to be a gold or silver member then why not do something constructive about it. I have to assume that emailing would feed fantasies even more.
And how do you know which is which if you don't even give those of us who can't pay the membership fees for whatever reason, a chance?


hasbeen46 77M
12 posts
2/24/2015 10:35 am

Yes but I can't tell you the number of times I have seen standard members view my profile multiple times but when I send them a note they never respond. A large percentage of the gold and silver members are just on here to feed their fantasy. If you are not even willing to spend any money, how many of the standard members are really looking?


oshkj replies on 3/31/2015 12:12 pm:
I am out of work and can't afford to pay for membership. Therefore, my only alternative is to either chat on instant messenger or wait for a gold or silver member to contact me. At least you have the option to send a message - I don't. That's my point. I can't respond to flirts, being hot listed or anything else. All you have to do is send a simple message like 'I'm interested'. At least that may get the conversation started and doesn't take any time.

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