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Just be honest  

happycouple1120 60M/54F
26 posts
11/21/2013 7:50 pm
Just be honest

You would think that anyone willing to spend money on a silver or gold membership is really here to meet someone, right ? Now, there are the few that "honestly" say that they are here to cam or just have hot chat. At least we respect and appreciate their honesty.

Just be honest. If those are the things you are looking for here, just say it. Pretending to want to meet someone and then just playing games is so LAME.

If we email or chat someone and we aren't feeling it, we politely say "not at this time" or " i don't think we are a match at this time". The truth is that not everyone that really is looking to play will be a good match. You gotta have a little thick skin if you are going to do this, right ?

Hopefully someone will read this and realize that not being "honest" is a waste of everyone's time and time is valuable. If you just want to cam, just cam. If you want to stroke off, go to one of the million web sites out there. If you really are looking to meet people, just be honest. Trust me, some of the best playdates we have had are when all four of us were just honest.

Remember, its all supposed to be FUN.

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