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Honesty
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Honesty Hello been a long time since i wrote in my blog but have to get this out.Y is it when men say they want a honest woman and the woman is honest then we get shaffted to the worst degree? |
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A man will ask for honesty, but when it comes their way they become afraid, because they really can't handle it. There are some brothers that can handle it but to others it's just a phrase. Honesty demands commitment, and unless a man is ready to obligate himself to that commitment, honesty, he will always ask for and present, until he gets the booty. After he gets the (Bun) his interest will start to drop off, and the female is left cold trying to figure out what has happened or what she did or didn't do that made this happen. What has happened is that his agenda has been fulfilled, and that is get-tin up in that ass. So in order to not be harmed by that, especially on this site is to ask for exactly what you want. I want to hit that ass, and that's it. This is a sex site. A lot of folks just want a good fuck buddy every now and then.
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with honesty has to come respect .. some respect is given, the rest is earned thru honesty .. respect for feelings, needs and desires .. whether they be short term or long term .. and honestly , whomever would do that a pretty woman such as yourself , has no respect for himself .. yes , this is a sex site , but it is an adult sex site .. if I could reach thru this computer and give you a big hug .. to let you know that not all of us on here are like that .. I would ... and probably wouldn't want to let go of that huggin either ..
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I think its an ego trip because long as you are being honest he knows all you do (smile)kinda like keeping tabs on you, and at the same time he not being totally honest with you thats why you get shafted. For example men brag about how they know what and where their woman is and what she is and aint doing,while he out there doing what he wants.His ego would be hurt if his woman was sneaking out on him.If people are being truly honest to each other relationships may go smoother.Most relationships ends because of someones cheating 
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Honesty also comes in degrees. I demand honesty because anything short of that is called lying (that's just how I was raised). When a woman (actually anyone) tells me XYZ, then I will act on XYZ and not ABC, In other words, I will assume up front that you are telling me the truth, I will act upon it as if it is the truth. Then if things get screwed up, at least I know that I did my best, based on the information at hand. Let me give a more practical example... I tell this to all of the women that I have been with: if you fake an orgasm, then you cannot blame me for not pleasing you. If I think that you were pleased... then the next time, I am going to do the same thing. If this time you don't fake an orgasm, it's not my fault, after all, as far as I am concerned, it worked last time. Why shouldn't it work this time? If on the other hand you told me the truth the first time, then I would adjust my technique and then you wouldn't have to fake anything. Those of us who are honest will often get hurtfor being honest because so many people lie to themselves that they assume that everyone else is a liar as well.
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4/23/2009 6:53 am |
Guess its all part of that men from Mars/women from Venus thing...even when we use the same words, we mean different things...
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On the behalf of the real men out there that can handle a real woman like yourself, I want to say don't let one fake ass, weak minded individual keep you from enjoying your sexuality. You probably put that pussy on him too much. Next time break him off slowly and see if he can handle it.
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That's a good question
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