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The Challenges of finding a good Straight Male Playmate  

Billtcat62 76M/46F  
14 posts
11/21/2017 9:40 am
The Challenges of finding a good Straight Male Playmate

Wanted to Start this Topic to get a sense of whether we are the only ones often frustrated by what should just be about fun - Comments from others with similar situations would be very welcome


My wife and I are what I would have thought were the ideal couple for single straight men. She is very attractive, well built, and very talented. She is 44. I am an old lucky Provert of 70 who is fortunately still functional. We are both straight and advertise clearly what we look like, look for, and how we choose playmates.

What I am amazed at are:

Guys who hit us up (gold and unpaid) who have no information in their profiles for us to look at - We get a lot of "I haven't gotten around to filling it out" - BS

Guys who "just happen" to have forgotten some key element like usually height or sexual persuasion - Like you think we would buy that??

Guys who chicken out because a threesome was a good fantasy but reality is a bit to scary - We get that, but why not tell us (some have but most don't)

Guys who post old "studio shots" that don't remotely fit their age - We are OK with 50 so why show us 30 - We are supposed to meet someday- right?

The list goes on and adds to the frustrations imposed by LesbianPersonals restrictions on free members - One might as well assume that all free members are just here to look?? It is certainly appearing that way.

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
11/21/2017 2:50 pm

 Sadly, these are common complaints. Welcome to the blogs and good hunting.
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


Billtcat62 76M/46F  
47 posts
12/1/2017 8:50 am

 Yes, it is very common. I was hoping to somehow start a discussion that would elevate the issue and get more attention. Just looked at what appeared to be a good match profile except the three pictures seemed to span a good 20 years or a very hard life - lol


Billtcat62 76M/46F  
47 posts
2/8/2018 8:52 am

 I should not have made it out as all bad. We have actually sifted through a lot of BS responses, and flakes but we have a small stable of guys that meet our criteria and are reliable threesome partners. More actually than she has time to take care of but I encourage her to try. About half of the six guys we have found will play nicely together so a moresome might be in the making soon. That is probably the subject of another blog - e.g. how do we introduce them to each other for a straight group play with her?


wannit1000 69M
60 posts
3/4/2018 1:25 am

 I move around the state a lot and it seems I am always in a small town with nobody that really wants to meet. I would love to have a 3some or moresome but unfortunately am never in an area where this is possible. In the past I have met some really nice women while working in AZ and in El Paso, but my contracts only last 13 weeks so I have to move on. I was a Gold member for a long time and found it makes little difference except for viewing members and # of chats allowed. Most people don't answer when attempting to chat so I seldom initiate them. I have never flaked out on a meet when it was set up because just meeting new people and talking can be enlightening. Maybe I will go back to Gold and keep trying.


Billtcat62 replies on 9/6/2018 9:19 am:
LesbianPersonals has squeezed free members to the point that we don't even try to hit them up or answer them on IM when we happen to be there. They can't read your profile so they don't know what we want. Most free members seem to be just chatters that hang out on IM

Billtcat62 76M/46F  
47 posts
3/13/2018 1:10 pm

 I would have to respectfully disagree about being gold making no difference. We have reached a point where we believe that anyone not willing to pony up the money is probably just looking or shopping for pictures or free chat time.

IM is equally non-interesting because it does not persist on my phone and again is usually someone who has not or cannot read our profile so they are completely different than what we are looking for.


smartlegs 58T
58 posts
4/13/2018 12:38 pm

 Maybe one day you will consider people like me...who have all the equipment to satisfy that gorgeous wife of yours, but dress like her...real sexxy.
Debbie


Billtcat62 76M/46F  
47 posts
9/6/2018 9:21 am

 We respect all interests and lifestyle choices. This just does not appeal to our particular tastes


ludwig202 72M
11894 posts
3/8/2019 12:54 pm

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irishmale5150 55M
Ask me for a photo
115 posts
3/18/2019 7:13 am

 Well I cannot speak for everyone, but for some ( not all ), Meeting the female half first for a 1 on 1 is preferable..


RandoNumbaNine 38M
22 posts
3/22/2020 4:40 am

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DuroMas77777 62M  
13 posts
3/24/2020 7:13 pm

 Hello there yes every thing that you said about most of persons ,I agree 1000%


SexyMatureBull 62M

4/22/2022 3:29 am

 I dislike people on here who are not honest and up front and play games on here. not even really even taking the step into lifestyle. i am a hedonist and have never had a bad experience swinging. I will happily aide you in pleasing your hot (very hot) wife and have not desire to be with a man. I like doing cuckold and fucking wives well in front of their husband who enjoys watching their partner pleasured. i like to see my women pleased by others as well. Did I say I live fairly close ? G


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