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Married and having an affair
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its a risk both ways.. a married person might be trying to get back or pay back with their partner.. so they might use the affair as a payback. also the married person might decide they want you now . in saying that.. a single person has more time on their hands..
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1/17/2019 1:49 pm |
Married people are more discreet
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1/17/2019 5:44 pm |
It would make the most sense to deal with someone who has just as much to lose as you do. If you decide to deal with another married person, hopefully the person is as discreet as they say they are.
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1/17/2019 7:20 pm |
A very pointed opinion. A welcomed perspective which is one way to look at the overall situation of married/married, married/ single, single / single , couple/ married , couple/couple. So is it okay if s person is in an open marriage? Or if both commited partners want to introduce another to their fun?
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1/17/2019 10:15 pm |
I have to say married... you are both in the same boat
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Married is probably safer in that you both have commitments to other people and less of a chance of getting attached to another.
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1/18/2019 3:20 am |
I have to say married... you are both in the same boat
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1/18/2019 3:23 am |
Married is probably safer in that you both have commitments to other people and less of a chance of getting attached to another.
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1/18/2019 4:03 am |
I accidentally deleted a post. Working on my phone and my thicker fingers hit the wrong part of the screen. Sorry about that.
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Having an affair with a married person may seem that the chances of being caught are better, but when you do, and you will get caught, you hurt more people, spouses, children, etc. I had an affair. It was the worst thing I have ever done. My advice is do not have one!
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1/18/2019 5:50 am |
Having an affair with a married person may seem that the chances of being caught are better, but when you do, and you will get caught, you hurt more people, spouses, children, etc. I had an affair. It was the worst thing I have ever done. My advice is do not have one!
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1/18/2019 5:59 am |
Having an affair with a married person may seem that the chances of being caught are better, but when you do, and you will get caught, you hurt more people, spouses, children, etc. I had an affair. It was the worst thing I have ever done. My advice is do not have one!
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1/18/2019 10:20 am |
You are correct. I did not think about all of the possibilities. Appreciate your comment and perspective.
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1/18/2019 3:43 pm |
Married - easter o maintain discreteness.
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1/19/2019 9:30 am |
if you are intending to stay married, single is safer because the partner of the married person may expose the affair.
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1/19/2019 10:57 am |
if you are intending to stay married, single is safer because the partner of the married person may expose the affair.
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A very pointed opinion. A welcomed perspective which is one way to look at the overall situation of married/married, married/ single, single / single , couple/ married , couple/couple. So is it okay if s person is in an open marriage? Or if both commited partners want to introduce another to their fun? "Cheating" is usually more of a matter of personal sanity, and ALL to often [those who cheat on their marriages] people can't afford to get divorced. Otherwise, sure, if you can afford to walk away from a marriage, do so immediately, then go bag some tail. The nonsense about "Vows" being thrown back at you because you cheat, is ridiculous and hysterical. Humans are NOT naturally monogamous. If someone better comes along... someone better is going to get laid. Those who say they wouldn't cheat... usually couldn't if their life depended on it. Step 1: Cheating is triggered when there's a reason, rational or irrational. Step 2: An opportunity is required. People usually get tripped up with step 2 , because they can't attract anyone . When that happens, their marriage turns violent. The lesson? ...Never get married if you can't attract others.
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1/19/2019 7:25 pm |
We share the same type of life.
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1/19/2019 7:54 pm |
It's always cool to cheat, and get away with cheating. "Cheating" is usually more of a matter of personal sanity, and ALL to often [those who cheat on their marriages] people can't afford to get divorced. Otherwise, sure, if you can afford to walk away from a marriage, do so immediately, then go bag some tail. The nonsense about "Vows" being thrown back at you because you cheat, is ridiculous and hysterical. Humans are NOT naturally monogamous. If someone better comes along... someone better is going to get laid. Those who say they wouldn't cheat... usually couldn't if their life depended on it. Step 1: Cheating is triggered when there's a reason, rational or irrational. Step 2: An opportunity is required. People usually get tripped up with step 2 , because they can't attract anyone . When that happens, their marriage turns violent. The lesson? ...Never get married if you can't attract others.
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I prefer having sex with a couple so much less risk and twice the fun . Next preference ... married. Last choice .... single .... too much risk of getting attached.
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1/22/2019 6:45 pm |
The marriage might be already lost. It happens.
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1/22/2019 6:47 pm |
I prefer having sex with a couple so much less risk and twice the fun . Next preference ... married. Last choice .... single .... too much risk of getting attached.
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Getting married is a waste of time . How many remain faithful? Look at all the married people on the site .
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1/22/2019 10:33 pm |
Yhoughts to ponder
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1/23/2019 7:55 am |
Both need to be married. Both have same to lose
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