Writers Block
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Posted:Nov 3, 2006 3:42 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2024 1:10 am
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Whilst I am creative, when it comes to thinking what to write down here is not that easy. I could tell you about the more mundane things in my life or make observations on the World in general as others do or set down my fantasies. Each one will appeal to a different type of audience. I will probably end up doing a mixture of the three.
I could write about my earth shattering sexploits on here, but at present such posts would be very infrequent, Indeed Never, if you count the number of people I have met on here. That maybe down to my natural reserve and caution about ensuring someone is genuine on here.
I suppose I have made some contacts, but none tend to continue. This is probably down to my circumstances, both in my relationship with my partner who I love and also down to my geographical locality. If you look at the Groups covering Lincolnshire, they are hardly full of regular posts. Are we all reserved in the County, or do we prefer to write to each other in private? Certainly if you compare the Groups with say those in Yorkshire, the latter do seem to be more active. OK Yorkshire is more populous, but even so what is lacking in quantity ought to be made up in quality.
One thing I have not done much is contact women on here. This is due to the handle I gave myself. Sometimes I wish I could change it, but why should I? I would though like to know what the view is from women or couples in the UK is on Bi Guys and whether they would respond to communication from me without any kind of negative almost homophobic response as happened once. Therefore I think I will try and work out how to do a poll. Whilst I am not getting many readers of the blog, a poll will remain on these pages so over time I may get a response.
Whilst I doubt that I would want to meet up with a woman on here, I do feel that I would be happy to correspond with one by exchanging emails and see where it goes.
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Network Invites without prior communication!
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Posted:Oct 30, 2006 4:47 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2006 3:28 pm
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It really bugs me that some folk invite you to a Network without prior communcation. Is it some form of trophy collecting? "Look at all the friends I've got - I am therefore hot" You might be, but also a tad pushy?
Anyone thinking of inviting me to your Network, please write first. Failure to do so will result in rejection.
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Naturist Beaches
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Posted:Oct 30, 2006 4:03 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2024 1:10 am
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Whilst holidaying overseas, I have had the occasion to be on the peripheries of a Nudist Beach. Generally you find that these beaches are quieter as there are no around. Whilst many are in dune areas, and lack amenities such as ice cream sellers, sun beds and sun shades, the advantage is that generally you get peace most of the day. I am one who likes to completely relax whilst on holiday, having a wander down to the sea, returning to dry out and maybe have a read or a little snooze, as I listen to the relaxing waves in the distance.
Some years ago whilst without my partner, I decided to go for a drive to a Naturist beach and was tempted to take the plunge. I found a secluded spot and took of my trunks. This was on a breezy day. In Fuertenventura all days are breezy! Well the feel of the air around my privates was exhilerating, and soon I became aware that I was starting to get a hard on. I turned over and hoped that it would subside. It wouldn't, I even was producing some pre cum. "This is ridiculous", I thought. "Its not good form to have a hard on on a beach!". I decided that there was nothing else for it. I put my trunks back on and went into the sea. Well nothing could prepare me for the power of the waves. Any hard on I had soon dissapeared. So now I had wet trunks to dry out. I returned to my secluded spot, and removed my trunks. The sun soon dried them out. This time though, I had relaxed and had no sign of a hard on. So on that afternoon I went back into the sea a couple of times naked. What a wanderful feeling it was not to have wet trunks.
Since then on our holidays, when ever we have had a day apart which is always a good thing when being in each others pockets for a fortnight, I have tended to seek out a Naturist Beach. One in the Greek Island of Corfu was down a very steep road - the climb up it on foot surely tests the heart. This was heaven. It even had a natural spring tricking down the cliff edge which had been adapted for use as a shower. The sea was that wanderful blue, warm, flat and calm and the sand so soft as to make it seem like being in a bath.
This year, my partner had told that someone she knoew had been on a nudist beach and decided to have a go. Her husband though did not. The expression used was "Why not? No one knows you!" Remembering this, I decided to tell my partner that as you "only live once it is no point regretting not doing something. In any case, when do you see a sunburnt nudist?" I can burn, and I felt that maybe it was the wetness of the trunks doing it. I wanted to experiment, as I had never got my arse burnt when I had had my previous one day sessions.So on the second day I want nude. OK I had to put my trunks on when we went into the sea, but at least, I could take them off so I was not sitting there with a wet arse. I wish I had done it on the first day, as my arse is whiter than the rest of me, but the tan sort of blends in. And another unexpected advantage was that my beach towel did not end up like a board during the fortnight.
Whilst my partner did not even go topless, being more reserved about her body, and worried about skin cancers, one unexpected bonus was that for what ever reson she did get extremely horny on the holiday, and we had the best session of love making for a long while. Even with Oral, which she normally does not like doing. Perhaps it was the book she was reading, I don't know but I did not complain.
This beach linked two resorts up so I did on accasion take the chance to go for a walk. This enabled me to walk naked, and have several nude dips in the sea. I noticed mixed couples, singles and same sex couples. They were probably all nationalities, some rich, some poorer. Being naked though definately in my opinion brought everyone to the same equal standard. There was no upmanship in the way that the wearing of designer costumes can cause. Surely Naturists are the most classless Society there is. So what if some were fat, some were thin, some women had big boobs, and some had little boobs, some men had big dicks, whilst some like me had small ones. At the end of the day, I don't think that anyone can say that they have a perfect body.
Why is it that we can be so prudish at times about being naked? If I had my way, I would certainly happily go naked again on a beach holiday. I'm not sure about the Naturist Resorts where I believe you can be naked when even having a meal or shopping. That perhaps is not for me, but on a beach with secluded areas, then that would now be my number one choice.
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End of summer
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Posted:Oct 25, 2006 5:07 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2024 1:10 am
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Clearly the wet weather experienced in the UK is the end of summer. Amazing that in the third week in October, the heating is just coming on. It does mean that the bare flesh on display in our high streets will be covered up  - apart from the teenagers who seem to give little thought about being frozen.
The advantage though is that Jeans will be more common, and I do like casting an eye over a nice shaped rear in a tight pair of Jeans.
Every cloud has a silver lining.
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Chat Rooms and webcams
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Posted:Oct 21, 2006 4:29 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2024 1:10 am
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I see I have had six views of my first post. No comments though. I have though activated the voting thingy and I may try a poll one day.
Last night I had a browse through the chat rooms complete with my webcam. The chat rooms on here are the weirdest I have seen. Whilst you get those trying to entice you to look at a site which is claimed to be the best thing since sliced bread - and lets face it you get that in all chat rooms, I do wander whether many people do actually chat in these rooms. Whilst you do get some who may have their webcam turned and and will acknowledge comments from viewers, I have not seen much sign of any actual conversations in these rooms. Or am I expecting to much?
When it comes to the webcam rooms, whilst there are many men who do have their cam turned on and a few couples, there are many women who are in the room, but don't seem to have their cam turned on. Are they busy dealing with instant message requests and don't have time to switch their cam on or is there some secret rule that you are supposed to send a woman an IM to get the chance to take things further?
I just cannot see how any kind of of converation can be followed with 200 odd people in a room. It is possible in a smaller room. I was involved in a cyber orgy in the masturbation room once, but as that never has more than 50 chatters at a maximum, I suppose it is possible to strike up a conversation with fewer people in a room.
Surely there must be folk who feel that a chat room should be used for conversation. You may say "Why doesn't the silly old fool go to a general chat room elsewhere?" The only thing with that proposition is that you may not be amongst sexually broadminded adults, and the whole purpose of a chat room is to have a discussion about what interests you. Maybe I am using the wrong rooms.
Oh I did mention that I had my webcam turned on. I don't mind having a bit of webcam fun with someone, although I would prefer it to be a two way thing. Very rarely does anyone watching have their cam turned on - I do check those profiles of people I catch watching me for more than a minute or so. This enables me the option of contacting them if they have a profile which is interesting. I did that once when I noticed that a woman had been watching me for at few minutes, so I sent her an email, and she acknowledged by calling me everything under the sun. She does not know how close she came to being reported for being abusive.....Why the hell was she watching for several minutes if she was not interested?
Whilst I am on the subject of webcams, it never ceases to amaze me that I am often watched by guys who are seeking women - no indication that they might enjoy looking at another man. Whilst I realise that they may not want family, friends and work colleagues to know that you might enjoy looking at another man, somehow that seems less important with strangers who they probably will never meet or interact with. Especally on an adult website. If you acknowledged that you were on occasion bi curious, then that in turn may help reduce the prejudices that there are, and more women who use this site may then accept that it is possible for men to have a bi side whilst still having the hots for a sexy woman (sexy being of course in the eyes of the beholder).
Let me say that there are many women on this website who are happy to accept that men can have a bi side from various posts I have seen on groups and in blogs.
Well Dear Reader, it is getting late now so I am going to end my ramblings of the day.
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Thats the first bit done!
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Posted:Oct 19, 2006 5:16 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2024 1:10 am
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Well at least I have stumbled across a title no one else has.
So, I have decided to create a blog. It seems the fashionable thing to do. So what am I going to include. Well it won't be a diary. I am sure you all want to know what I had for dinner or what I watched on TV. Now this blog will be where I will set my thoughts if and when I have any that I consider are worth sharing. These may be sexual, this afer all is an adult site. Equally they may just relate to any current happenings in the World.
It will probably give some clues as to what makes me tick, and entice you to find out more.
Firstly, my handle. I chose it because I have had experiences with men in the past and I thought that it was quiet catchy. However in practice it may have been a hindrance when trying to find the fairer sex. After all it would be nice to find a lady who has an open minded attitude to sex. Not that I am saying I would want to sleep with her, but I did think that there might be some married women who like me are happy generally in their relationship apart from wanting a little bit more excitement - no thats the wrong word - I should say variety in the bedroom, and that cybersex through the written word is one way of exploring those thoughts and desires without the risk of harming a relationship or hurting a loved one.
It seems though that some women may be put of by my handle. I have tended to have many more winks from men. Perhaps this is because more men are winkers than women. I don't know. Clearly there are more men than women on here, but after all that is probably because men are more interested in erotic images than women.
Of course this could be because I have tended to refrain from contacting many women. This is probably due to subcontiously being concerned that an exchange of mail with a lady might result in strings. Men are sexual animals. We can have sex, clean ourselves up and move on, and not worry about the emotional side. I don't think this is the same for women. They like the wining and dining, and a mini romance before and after the sexual act itself. I may be wrong, and I am sure I will be told, but women who want just sex and no follow up are probably in the minority.
Well thats the start Dear Reader. I am sure I will have more musings and even the odd rant as time progresses. I will also have to try and learn about the technicolour bits and the photo bits another time.
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