How to bring vacation sex home
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Posted:Mar 10, 2012 8:01 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 1:41 pm
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Haven't had sex in ages, thanks to a stressful and busy schedule? We present to you vacation sex - but at home!
Here's how to make love like you're on an exotic island, without actually straying from your zip code. If your last great sexual experience was on vacation, this article's for you.
There is something about vacations that allows people to open up and let loose. May be it's the absence of to-do lists, the piles of responsibilities, the routine, etc. On vacations, people don't worry about being too loud, too tired or making a mess. But it's not always possible to hop on a flight and head to the nearest holiday destination to have great sex. Yet, that doesn't mean you can't enjoy some quality sex in the confines of you own home. If you can't go on an impromptu vacation to improve your sex life, here are some easy at-home moves you can try that will give you the feel of vacation sex.
Switch off from the world
Psychologically, a vacation is where we leave the cares of daily life behind, so that we can relax and have fun. For starters, turn off your beloved mobile phone. No calling, texting, or even surfing online for the latest cricket score. Make sure you keep one night of the week technology-free.
Send the away
You could either send the for a movie or even better, schedule a sleepover with their friends or grandparents. This way, you get to have all the privacy you need, without
constantly having to worry about your walking in.
Change your surrounding scenery
Upgrade your house, light it up with tropical scented candles and download some sexy
exotic tunes. Incorporate scents, colours, aphrodisiacs or any other elements that will relax or entice you. Then, get frisky in a spot you've never tried before. The shower, kitchen, guest bedroom or if you have a garage, then there - basically anywhere but your usual place.
Turn in early
One reason why sex is so good on vacation is because you get to catch up on your sleep. So stay in on a Friday night and cancel all your plans for Saturday morning. Go to bed early (we don't suggest you have to sleep!), and then stay in bed till late the following morning.
Take a few erotic risks
Forget your inhibitions and experiment. Try new positions, toys, props, even a blindfold or some light bondage. Be free and adventurous. In other words, act like you would on
a vacation.
Get 'busy' more often
Another reason why vacation sex rocks, is the quantity of sex that you indulge in! The more sex you have, the sexier you feel and the more you'll want it. Who says, you have to spend a lot of money (or even have to leave your home) to have great sex! Allow yourself the luxury of time, an enticing space and an open mind and you can go to paradise without leaving
your home.
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How to have naughty, bitchy sex
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Posted:Mar 2, 2012 6:23 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2012 8:19 am
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Supermodel Heidi Klum, actress Eva Longoria, singer-actress Nicole Kidman and many others have gone on record saying that they like to bring out their kinky side in the bedroom.
Couples who have experienced their 'fetish' for such fantasies swear by its pleasure. Whether you want to be the wild cat and use the belt to control your partner or use sex toys to spunk up your game of love, kinky sex is a great way to add spice to your sex life. Klum had once said, "There's nothing wrong with using a nice garter belt." While she loves to rule, Longoria prefers to be submissive. She admits that she loves being tied up with silk scarves during lovemaking. She likes a man to take charge. Each one of us has a deep desire to be ruled or to rule. Kinky sex gives you the opportunity to turn those dreams into reality.
Tie me down
Imagine lying down on your bed waiting for your partner. Suddenly your hands are handcuffed and you get blindfolded. You have no idea what's happening when your partner whispers in your ear, 'Honey, submit yourself.' He caresses you and takes you on a journey where all your desires seem to be fulfilled. Imagine! You are bound to reach the ultimate point of satisfaction.
Role play
When you are bored with your routine sex life and love making becomes 'just another task, try making it fun (instead of faking that headache). Role-playing is a must-try for those who wish to fulfill their sexual fantasies. Think of some interesting scenarios and don some exciting costumes and let your imagination guide you. Dress up like a maid, or a , or try more mature roles like MILF or a teacher seducing a student. Guys could enact the role of a cow boy, or a cabana boy.
Deliciously unexpected
Kinky sex is all about 'revealing' your wild side. If you are mild and sober in your real life, be the king of the fantasy world. Dominate the bedroom moves. Spank your partner or do smut talking - the shock your partner will get to see this side of you will get things in the right gear.
Sex toys
While many use them to satisfy themselves when their partner is away, you can try them when your partner is with you. The reason? Multiple orgasms. Dildos, vibrators, Wen ba balls are some toys you could try to kick-start a heated sexual frenzy.
Dance, baby, dance
A seductive dance is all it takes to woo your partner. Guys could try the American Pie dance (at your own risk) and girls could do the sexy pole dance. Play her favourite song in the background and do a close dance. Slowly touch her and feel her and you are all set for a hot and sexy night.
Spank her tight
Spank her, bite him, hit him, pull her hair, do what you like to make it a passionate sexual encounter.
These are just a few ways to make your sex life pleasurable. Bring out the sexy, naughty, bitchy you for a more fanatical sex.
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Missing My fav cpl Rahul shweta From del
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Posted:Feb 14, 2012 7:11 am
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2017 10:08 am
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When i Joined this site, I didnt know that i would be meeting so many Good people in here.And Among them is one of my Fav cpl from del,Rahul shweta.
Wat i loved most about them is that they understand each other very well.Have a very Good bonding and thats makes the whole Environment so cogenial.I have met them twice and had very good time.
I'm dying to meet them again.I wish they cld hear my voice..anyway..im still keeping my fingers crossed. 
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TANTRIC SEX: THE BIG OM ( Learn how to do prolonged Sex)
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Posted:May 22, 2011 3:39 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2011 1:41 am
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Tantric sex is the polar opposite of “wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am.”
Much of Tantra is about lovingly touching each other, because
as the Taoists believe, the energy in your body is recharged when you are touched for a long period of time. Part of the Tantric sex ritual involves sexual positions that can help prolong the sexual interaction and provides a fuller, whole-body, sensual experience. You can expect to be delighted for hours during the sex ritual, and you may even find that you feel an intense, intimate connection to your partner for days afterward. Before you start any of the exercises, here are a few tips:
• Start slowly. Don't push yourself beyond what feels
good or natural.
• Practice Tantra in a room that's warm, comfortable,
and inviting.
• Eliminate distractions. Unplug the phone, lock the door,
turn off the television.
• Take the time to rest and enjoy being close to each other
after you've finished. Remember, it's not a quickie. Breathing in Harmony Harmonized breathing is an integral part of Tantric sex.
Just like in all yoga disciplines, breathing helps the participants establish a kind of meditative state. When you're practicing Tantra, your breath should consist of four parts. Try this:
1. Inhale slowly.
2. Hold the inhalation for a few seconds.
3. Exhale slowly.
4. Hold the breath out for a few seconds.
Tantric couples practice breathing together in sync to
help them achieve harmony within their bodies, which is said to lead to greater harmony within their relationship. Here's a basic exercise that will help you and your lover get in sync:
• Assume the spooning position, with both of you on your left sides, facing in the same direction. According to Tantric wisdom, this position is conducive to energy flow.
• Close your eyes and relax into this nurturing position.
Try to focus on your breathing, using the steps I just described. When you feel comfortable with the rhythm of your own breath, move your concentration to your
partner's breath.
• Then, try to get your breathing in sync with your partner's.
Relax. Breathe in and breathe out at the same time. Continue this synchronized breathing for 5 minutes. This breathing exercise can be done anytime. It's a great way to start your day! There are other breathing exercises that you can do once you've mastered the basics. Check out one of the many books about Tantra at your
local bookstore for more information. How You Balance Each Other As you start to get physically close, notice the opposition
of the male and female energy and body parts that go together for a perfect balance. This is called the yin and yang. By holding, caressing, and slowly kissing, a man and a woman can feel how they are different from each other. They can feel the
obvious gender differences in their bodies and how they complement each other for balance. People who practice Tantra believe that the perfect sexual balance is achieved between a man and a woman because of this opposition. This is not to say that gays and lesbians cannot practice Tantra. It is just that
it is not part of the ancient traditions of Tantra, because of the belief of ying and yang, male and female, energies combining to create one form. However, today anyone can practice Tantra. Whatever your gender or sexual orientation, the most important aspect of creating balance with your partner is having the desire
to feel more connected! Beginning Tantric Sex Tantric practitioners typically begin each encounter by creating a scene that's conducive to intimacy. The following steps can bring you
and your partner close together:
• You and your partner can sit nude and cross-legged on a
rug or pillows on the floor in a darkened room. You can use soft lighting, candles, and either have the room silent or use New Age-type music to set the mood.
• You should begin looking deeply into your partner's
eyes. Not staring—really looking to try to see your partner for the wonderful person that you think
he or she is.
• While looking into each other's eyes, next you should
each state how much you cherish and respect each other, and how you want to become closer. You can say something like, “I feel you are an important part of my world. I worship the love inside
you and the love we share. I respect you. I want our love to combine with the universe.”
• Then, while still sitting cross-legged and still looking
into each other's eyes, hold each other's hands and start breathing in sync, breathing together deeply, in and out, as described earlier.
• Once you are breathing in the same rhythm, you can start
trying to feel the energy flowing within yourselves and between your bodies. With your eyes closed, you and your partner simultaneously begin tracing your hands around each other's
bodies, without actually touching at first; in fact, your hands should be about 2 inches away. This way, after a few minutes, you'll be able to feel the heat and energy that is radiating from the other's body.
• Once you're in tune with the energy that's flowing
off of your partner, open your eyes, look into each other's eyes, and gently hold hands, while you keep breathing in sync. Concentrate on feeling the energy that's flowing back and forth between you and your partner—through your hands, your breathing, and your eyes. The longer you stay in this state, the more connected you may feel. Some people stay this way (silently, not talking!) for between 30 and 60 minutes, just enjoying the closeness.
• After this point, you may begin engaging in foreplay by
touching each other's genitals in slow, rhythmic ways. Tantrics say that a couple must have a harmonious steady flow of the “inner elixir” in order to be ready to have intercourse. In other words, the woman should be very wet and the man should have a firm erection. At this point, the couple can have intercourse, if desired. Riding the Wave If you've gotten this far, you probably understand that couples who practice Tantra are striving for heightened sensory awareness. But if you're a practitioner, you'll not only feel increased sensations during sex, you can also prolong the sex act. In Tantric sex, the buildup to the actual genital orgasm will be lasting and intense, because the foreplay and genital touching stage continues for a long time, even up to 2 hours if desired. In traditional sex, a couple
most often gets into a thrusting rhythm that will lead to orgasm. In Tantra, you can stop and start in order to prolong the feelings. Some describe it as “riding the wave” of sexual energy. Riding the wave allows you to let the sexual energy
build up, so that when you're finally ready to share the energy—to orgasm—the feeling is intensified because the energy is so ready to be released. It's as if every pore of your body is waiting for orgasm. The following steps illustrate what it means to “ride the wave”:
• The man inserts his penis just an inch or so inside the woman's
vagina, without thrusting.
• He just rests his penis inside her for a few minutes to feel
her body and her energy.
• Then he withdraws his penis from her vagina and uses it
to gently massage her clitoris and vaginal opening.
• After a few minutes of this massage, he slides back inside
her vagina again.
• This cycle should be repeated several times. Most of the
time, you should each feel as if you're hovering on the brink of orgasm.
• When you finally decide to release into orgasm, the penis
should remain inside the vagina, thrusting gently until climax. The man can also use his penis to massage the woman's clitoris until orgasm. Unlike traditional Western sex, in Tantra you should refrain from moaning or writhing around during heavy-petting and intercourse. Instead, it's important to always “stay present, ” keeping your eyes open, your breathing deep and conscious, and really paying attention to the feelings
in your body. People who practice Tantra say they feel the sensations of sex much deeper because they focus in this way. This will allow you to feel closer to each other and more spiritually connected to the universe around you.
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Lick It, Lick It Good
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Posted:Feb 25, 2008 11:16 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2011 12:06 am
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Lick It, Lick It Good
Following are lip-smacking ideas for things you can do
while performing amazing oral sex on a woman. • Find a comfortable position. Position yourself comfortably so that your head is between
her thighs. For many women, the most comfortable position is if she lies
on her back, and you lie, kneel, or sit with your head between her legs. For
variation, you could have her sit or stand and you could kneel in front of
her. Or you could lie on your back and she could squat over your face. • Start with your hands. Touch her inner thighs. Run your hand over her pubic hair.
Wet your finger, then touch her labia, clitoris, and vagina. Begin kissing
the entire area. When she is excited, place your tongue on her vulva.
• Lick around the entire area. Lick from the bottom of her vagina to the top of her clitoris.
You can use your tongue in different ways all around the area. You can
flick the tip of your tongue, or lick long ice-cream-cone-type licks with
the flat part of your tongue, or use the edge of your tongue back and forth. Get
into it and explore the whole area with your tongue. • Focus on the clitoris. Point your tongue and use the tip to make circles on her clitoris.
Continue the circular motion until you have a consistent rhythm.
Or instead of circles, you can also lick up and down or back and forth on the clitoris.
For more direct stimulation of her clitoris, hold her labia apart
to further expose her clitoris. • Avoid direct clitoral stimulation if she's overly
sensitive there. Some women do not like direct clitoral stimulation. They
may prefer if you focus on the labia or the clitoral hood (the skin that covers
the clitoris). If her clitoris seems to disappear under the clitoral hood, it
may be very sensitive at this time, so lighten up on tongue pressure. • Use your fingers around the labia. Stroke her inner labia with your fingers as you lick her
clitoris. Separate them with your fingers. She may even enjoy it if you gently
tug on them. • Penetrate the vagina. You can put a finger or two inside her vagina and slowly move
your finger(s) in and out. You can also use your tongue to penetrate
her vagina, and move it in and out. She may enjoy this at the same time
as clitoral stimulation. You can keep them both going at the same time
in a rhythm. Although, some women do not like any penetration, so find
out what she likes first. • Use your hands to stimulate her whole body. Reach up and touch her breasts or nipples. Or touch her inner
thighs, butt, or anywhere on her body. Touch gently around her anus, or slowly
slide a lubricated finger inside her anus (that is, only if anal
contact is something that you already know she likes). • Ask her to tell you what she likes. Ask her to tell you where she likes to be licked (as in, “a
little to the left, ” “more on the clit” . Or she can show you by pointing out the
good spots with her fingers. Some women also let you know what they like
by making noises or moving their hips, or by moving your head around with
their hands. • Keep up a rhythm when she's close to orgasm. If she is close to orgasm, focus in on the places that respond
best to your tongue. If you keep up a rhythm in that area, it could put
her over the top, and she could have an orgasm.
• Ease away after orgasm. A woman's clitoris may become very sensitive after
orgasm, so she may want you to stop as soon as she is finished with her orgasm.
This may be the time to cuddle, or to move on to other sex acts. If she wants
to kiss you after, you may, of course. But sometimes after oral sex, a woman
prefers not to kiss right away. Most women have orgasms from their clitoris during oral
sex, but as I said some prefer indirect clitoral stimulation to direct contact.
Similarly, some like penetration of their vagina at the same time, and some do
not. Remember that every woman likes something different. So if you want to
be an amazing oral lover, you really have to talk to her and pay attention to
the way she moves her body to let you know what she likes the most.
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