hi..mets and chats
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Posted:Jun 25, 2008 10:46 am
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helo
care to leave a comment or contact for me
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still waiting for it to happen
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Posted:Jun 4, 2008 7:44 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 2:42 pm
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i think one will have to upgrade
looks like many ladies here in malaysia especially KL and selangor are not into sex
must be well filled
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How To Make Your Woman Ejaculate...
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Posted:May 14, 2008 8:32 am
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2008 7:05 am
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How To Make Your Woman Ejaculate
By David Strovny
Sex Education Correspondent - Every Saturday
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Some women don't know how to orgasm, while others need nothing more than a whisper to reach orgasmic heights. And then there are the others -- those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you.
Although I'd like to believe that every woman is capable of reaching such heights of sexual ecstasy, unfortunately, there are many women out there who disagree. And if they're not willing to open their minds to the idea of ejaculating, no matter how hard I try to convince them (yeah, it's a dirty, messy job, but someone's gotta do it), then that's their prerogative.
Nevertheless, if you've got yourself a woman who is very sexually in tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today's tip is going to leave you soaking wet.
before she starts squirting
As I've already mentioned, a woman's ejaculate is expelled from the urethra, the same place that urine comes out from. And although studies have found that the clear liquid is not urine at all (the juice is released from the Skene's glands or urethral sponge), if your girl doesn't have complete control over her PC (pubococcygeus) muscle, there is a chance that she may actually pee all over you.
If this does end up happening, be cool about it. Think about it; it's normal for her to feel as though she's about to urinate when she's about to ejaculate. If she does end up urinating, and you trip out on her, she'll never try this again. Enjoy the golden shower… okay, just don't freak out.
Let her go with it; eventually she'll learn the difference between the sensations. And although you can manipulate her vagina all you like, if your woman is inhibited, then chances are she won't be able to reach this pinnacle of sexual satisfaction. She may even get annoyed by the feeling, so make sure she wants it.
Okay, so she wants it. If you're about ready to start seeking the liquids, here's what you have to do:
use your fingers
While there are some women who can ejaculate through clitoral stimulation, or even women who can ejaculate through other sex play (penile penetration or even breast-sucking), the most effective way to achieve this outcome is through G-spot manipulation with your hands.
She'll be soaking you in no time…
Obviously, I'm not implying that you should head directly for the G-spot. Start out with some foreplay and lick her clitoris first -- get her "pumped" so to speak. Once she begins to get excited, insert two fingers inside her vagina, palms facing up. But don't stop licking her clitoris (unless, of course, you can't do two things at a time).
About an inch or two inside the vagina, you will likely hit a round ball of skin -- that's the G-spot. Keep stroking the area with pressure; it may start to become more solid; just keep doing what you're doing.
Tip: Use your other hand to gently press down on the area between her navel and her mons pubis (her pubic mound) for increased stimulation.
If she tells you that she feels like she's about to urinate, assure her that it's near impossible for her to pee and that she should just let go. Although her instincts may be to hold back, reassure her with encouraging words like, "Oh yeah, I can't wait for you to drench my hands."
As she begins to reach orgasm and starts to ejaculate, prepare yourself to either be greeted by a light gushing liquid or an actual drenching spray. Both are normal and the amount of liquid can reach anywhere from a teaspoon to a ¼ cup of liquid. Have some towels handy.
As well, after she gushes like crazy, chances are she'll want a break because her vagina might become extremely sensitive (think of the head of your penis after you ejaculate). So, don't go for a second round right away unless you get the distinct impression that she's ready to go into phase two immediately.
keep getting the goods
Achieving the almighty squirt may not be as simple as described above; it may take some experimentation, persuading and different positions. As well, you may want to try stimulating other parts of her body while you head inside.
For example, have her lie down on the bed, face up, and kneel next to her (your body should be facing her belly button). While your fingers are stimulating her G-spot, use your other hand and your mouth to manipulate her nipples.
As well, you could also opt to rotate between penile penetration and finger penetration in the doggy style position.
And, of course, there are women who can ejaculate through sex alone, so place her on a surface where her vagina easily meets your penis and penetrate her, making sure only your penis connects your bodies.
And if all else fails, you can always call on a vibrator to help your woman get in touch with her juicier side.
keep on simulating
There's no doubt in my mind that every woman has the ability to reach incredible heights of orgasm. It's up to you to convince her to let go of her inhibitions and squirt all over you.
Until next time, get that juice.
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FB are not friends that you want to fuck..by Jannicee
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Posted:May 13, 2008 7:49 am
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2008 7:34 am
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Fuck-buddies? Friends? Shagging your mates? It all sounds wonderfully fun and jovial:
"Let's shag! Hey, we're buddies! We're fucking and we're friends too - fantastic!!!"
How convenient to have sex on tap, and with a mate too, how fun!
Not in reality, obviously. It is far more complex than that, and often more problematic. For starters the phrase fuck-buddy is a misnomer: having someone on call to have casual sex with, is not the same as being mates with that person and also sleeping with them. The former need not involve any emotional intimacy; the latter depends on it.
The definition of a fuck buddy is someone with whom you are sexually involved, but with no (relationship, ie. emotional or romantic) strings attached; where occasionally through having a productive one night stand with them, it can then lead onto having a series of Regular One Night Stands (RONS). These can then develop into being an on-call sexual relationship - fuck buddies.
Sex with a RONS can be fun, relaxed and enjoyable; it can be refreshing to shag someone without there being any expectations of commitment or co-dependency, and it can also be pleasurable to have multiple sexual experiences with them over a period of time: casual sex does not have to mean a once only affair.
Although friendly, the relationship with a fuck buddy is in its essence, purely physical. When I get a call from a fuck buddy, I know they are not getting in contact with me to have a chat and find out how I am, like a mate would; they are instead calling me to say,
"I'm lying here with a stonking hard on, thinking about you sitting on my cock. Fancy a shag?"
And I can either reply 'yes' and go round there and sit on said cock, or I can decline and say 'maybe another time'. There is no awkwardness, no guilt or hurt; it's a simple situation, with little or no complications. It is not a problem that they only wanted to see me because they were horny; I am not offended that they didn't ask after me, to see how I was doing. I don't need to get validation from them on an emotional or intellectual level - I can get that from my friends.
With a RONS there is no real intimacy beyond nakedness and sexual desire; there might be nothing in common with that person other than a sexual attraction: seeing a mate means you go and watch a movie with them and talk about the plot over dinner afterwards; spending time with a RONS means you are likely to only see the inside of their bedroom.
The criteria for friendship then, is very different to that of a RONS. Whilst I may not give a shit if I hadn't heard from a RONS for six months, I would be quite hurt if a friend was out of contact for the same period. With a RONS, seeing as sex would be the sole objective to seeing them, I would expect to cut to the chase: some wine, a chat, then a good shag; but with a friend, I would want to catch up with them, meet up for drinks, go to a gig. If sex was also to follow those things, then so be it, but it would be a secondary expectation, rather than the primary goal.
This is where it gets complicated. What happens if you do end up in bed with a mate? What are the boundaries of the relationship then? How can one sleep with a friend, not be in a relationship with them, and also not be fuck buddies, given that the friendship may have existed for some time? How does one ensure that a friendship can survive casual sex?
It's difficult. I have in my past, fucked my friends. I have lost the friendship of one, when I learned he wanted more, and I ran scared, shutting him out of my life in the process; and I have caused pain in another, when I discovered she was in love with me, and all I wanted was some drunken groping with her. It cuts both ways: my own heart has been broken too. When I slept with my closest friend, I thought we would spend our lives together as a result of our passionate sexual closeness, but he married someone else and I learned the hard way, that sex, intimacy and friendship don't always have to mean anything, and that they often don't mix.
But sometimes, when both parties are open, honest and upfront people and where they want the same things out of the situation (ie. non-romantic sex), then it can work - and be great fun too, if the following rules are taken into consideration:
1. Whether or not sex is involved, a friendship must be built on trust, honesty and openness and these things take priority over any sexual desires. Without doing this, it cannot survive sex entering the equation.
2. You cannot treat your mate like you would a RONS; the latter will not be offended if you are out of contact for some time, or decline to meet up; but a friend may feel rejected if you do not make arrangements to see them in a non-sexual context too.
3. Wants and needs are fluid things and should be constantly reassessed and talked about. Whereas two months ago, one person may have just wanted a drunken grope with their mate, now they may have feelings for the other person. Without discussing this, the boundaries of the friendship will be threatened and risk the relationship failing.
4. Understand that the sex may be more intimate than with a RONS: by the nature of friendship, intimacy will feel more natural to explore than basic physical sexual expression. Beware that this doesn't necessarily mean anything more than what it is: emotional closeness expressed through sexual physicality.
5.Do not have sex with your friends if:
a. You have romantic feelings for them. It will only mess with your head and your heart, and inevitably, your friendship too.
b. You find it hard to have emotionally disconnected sex. (What most if not all, one night stands really boil down to: sex with no romance involved.) Shagging someone you don't care about can be hard in itself when it comes to just having a physical connection; shagging someone you do care about (even just as a mate) can make the experience painful at best, and emotionally damaging at worst.
c. You really want to be in a relationship with someone, and even though you may not harbour romantic feelings for your friend, you know that having sex with them - and experiencing intimacy - will remind you of what you are missing, and what you really want: it may leave you feeling crap about doing it, and regretting it afterwards.
I've done all of the above in the past. I'm sure I've been on the receiving end too. And none of it was particularly pleasant. So I don't make a habit of fucking my friends, in fact I now steer well clear of it; it's far easier to keep things platonic and maintain those boundaries, than to complicate things with a meaningless shag: those can be had with anyone.
And even though there may be sexual tension between myself and a mate, I find it far better to talk about it in the open and have a laugh, than explore it and risk the friendship I have built with them. (Usually, anyway; I have my weak moments, like everyone else). Generally though, I keep them separate and enjoy the casual liaisons I have and the non-sexual friendships too.
Sometimes though a RONS can become a good mate: there is one whom I have had casual sex with over more than a decade and we are pretty good friends now.
Although I think I may have hurt his feelings a little when I recently left him sleeping in bed and tried to quietly creep out of his flat at 6am.
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by Jannicee
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Lover Concept..instead of Fuck Buddy..by poison_syrup
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Posted:May 13, 2008 7:47 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 2:42 pm
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poison_syrup
Not FUCK BUDDY though. LOVER CONCEPT suits me better. My definition of LOVER CONCEPT: A companion that can share my thoughts, understand me, can laugh, joke, dine, wine, club... can be anything a husband/boyfriend is but minus the comittment part cause both parties are still able to have other relations with MOS (including sex).
Don't say not possible, course I have been involve in relationships like that for sometime now.
Lover Concept..instead of Fuck Buddy..by poison_syrup
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Fuck buddy..by..GirlzAllies..copied from GirlzAllies
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Posted:May 13, 2008 7:44 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 2:42 pm
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Fuck Buddy
Having a 'fuck buddy' suits some people perfectly; recreational sex with no heavy love stuff going on. But can it work for you?
When it works
If it's what you both want, then there's no-strings sex, without the need for the nerve-wracking chatting up that usually leads up to a one-night stand.
If you want to get laid regularly, but don't want to commit to a heavy relationship then it has a certain appeal.
It's a very personal decision about whether or not its right for you.
It can be a real thrill to have a passionate fling with someone you wouldn't normally hang out with in everyday life for long periods of time.
Sometimes couples have incredible sexual chemistry, but beyond that they have little in common.
The added sense of 'naughtiness' allows some people to cut loose and play out their fantasies.
Both partners have to be very clear about what they want from having a 'fuck buddy', and need to talk about their expectations so that there are no misunderstandings.
When the passion burns out, if you were good friends already, you may find you can go back to being just mates and closer ones at that, however sometimes one of you will be too weird out and you'll lose them completely as a result.
When it doesn't work
If it's two people who like and respect one another, then it can work very well.
However, often one person is in love with the other one and hides their true feelings, or falls in love during the relationship.
If either of you are going to sleep with other people while keeping a fuck buddy then be honest. Otherwise there is a strong possibility of someone feeling jealous, betrayed, or having their sexual health put at risk.
Some people who go on about being a fuck buddy are just a bit selfish, or too immature to commit to a relationship.
If the relationship quickly becomes one-sided, or you start to feel used, then it's time to knock it on the head, no matter how good the sex may feel.
Test of time
It is often impossible to turn this situation into a regular relationship, if that's what you eventually decide that you want, but it does work out sometimes.
What usually happens, though, is that the intensity of the sex eventually burns itself out - and you both find that sex was not that great anymore and you've got nothing to talk about. Let the relationship go and do not feel betrayed.
Some `fuck buddy’ becomes friends, others prefer to totally cut ties. But at least nobody will have a broken heart if you stick to the ground rules.
A 'Fuck Buddy' or not?
It all boils down to YOU!. Think if you could handle a loveless relationship, by all means, find a 'Fuck Buddy'.
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by..GirlzAllies
this post was copied from GirlzAllies
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Labour's Day
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Posted:Apr 30, 2008 7:23 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 2:42 pm
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yeah .. a day off
so what's up..?
any plans..?
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hi..how was the weekend
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Posted:Apr 29, 2008 6:53 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 2:42 pm
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its a long week
2nd last day to tax submission
not much happen in the weekend
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