December 2013
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Posted:Dec 20, 2013 2:37 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2013 10:44 am
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Well fellow bloggers, the end of another year approaches. Always a time for reflection, I feel.
So, how has 2013 been?
A busy year both professionally and on the home front. As usual many things to sort out, but most problems overcome. I feel in a much better place than last year.
In terms of this site, well of course an honorable mention to the whirlwind known as Arthur. This explosive liaison lasted about 2 years, but nothing since the end of the Summer. I think he might have felt I wanted more, when the truth of it is the only 'more' I wanted was 'more often'! Sometimes you just have to close a chapter.
Then there is the newly met Geo. Brim full of norty possibilities, just some time to wait to see if that transpires.
I'm now off work till the New Year and will be concentrating on 'getting my house in order', quite literally!
I don't really 'do' Xmas, as all my friends and family are far away. Instead I have donated money to Cancer Research, in the hope that one day we will beat this vile disease that touches so many of us.
As for this site, I thought it was waning, but I have been inundated with emails this week. Not sure why! Still, I can't say I was impressed by the guy who sent 2 messages, the first asking if he could put his 'cock between my tits' and that I was 'very fuckable'. Whilst that may be true (tongue very firmly in cheek) it's hardly an eloquent and enticing offer!
There also appears to be alot of younger guys on the site now (or am I just getting old?). Flattering as it might be to get messages from them, I really struggle to understand what benefit that is to me.
Am I fussy? Yes!
Do I have standards? Yes!
Do I expect a certain amount of effort to be shown? yes!
No excuses for any of the above 3 things. I don't intend to change my views on any of them. It has and always will be quality over quantity. I can happily pleasure myself if all I want is an orgasm!
Right, it's time to get my generous arse in gear!If there's no chance of rampant sex, I can at least expend some energy on all the things I don't normally have time to do at home!
Merry Xmas!
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Have you ever tried a 'Woo Woo'??
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Posted:Dec 12, 2013 12:16 pm
Last Updated:Dec 15, 2013 8:16 am
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So fellow bloggers, it was the work Xmas party today and it was at a well known chain that sells cocktails.
I discovered the delights of a cocktail made of Vodka, Peach Snaps & Cranberry juice.
Imagine my colleagues delight when the first one arrived in this huge, heavy glass I can only describe as a cross between a vase and a goldfish bowl!
More hilarity ensued when my colleagues discovered it was called a 'Woo Woo'!
Cue many comments about seeing/holding/trying/displaying/showing off etc etc my 'Woo Woo'!!
It's just as well I didn't mind this! In fact, it tasted so good, I had a second one!
I can whole heartedly recommend it! 
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Sorting it all out
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Posted:Dec 7, 2013 3:13 pm
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2013 1:55 pm
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Well fellow bloggers it's been a funny old week. As usual there's always some minor glitch to sort out.
I finally sorted out my iPhone 5 which had been driving me demented with error messages. I probably spent a fortune on phone calls, but except for some of my music not syncing, the phone is now working pretty much as it should do.
Then there's the oven. I found out it wasn't working about a week ago and suspected it had been unplugged during my boiler fitting. I was pondering how I was going to sort that out, when a good mate suggested popping around for a pre Xmas drinkie this afternoon.
Before we got too far down a bottle of red, he managed to move the cooker and hold it while I reached in and plugged it back in. Something I would never have been able to do alone! And I didn't even have to pay in sexual favours for the help! hahahahaha! He's just a mate and I don't see him in that way, although I suspect the same is not true for him! But he is a true gent and accepts our friendship for what it is, just that.
Now I only have the Sky On Demand box to sort out but I think my insurance covers that and I can probably get an engineer out in the few days I have off before Xmas.
These last few days have gone so fast and I haven't really had time to digest the time I spent with Geo. He's travelling all over right now and we did manage to exchange a few texts, even though he was right round the other side of the world. He did say he felt a bit worn out and needed this week to recover........ I can't think why? 
So in attempt to feel a tad Xmasy, I have put up a tree. I don't really do Xmas. I'm not buying presents or cards this year, but will donate to charity instead. The whole commercial spin turns me right off and leaves me cold. I am looking forward to quite a long break from work though and a chance to spend some quality time at home.
As for Geo, there will be no opportunity for us to meet again until at least January, but time flashes by so fast that will come around soon enough. In the meantime I'll just continue sorting out all the other things that need doing in my home. I'm on a roll now.......
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Finding the diamond in the rough
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Posted:Nov 30, 2013 1:48 pm
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2013 7:48 am
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I've been around a long time on this site. I've been lucky to meet a few really great guys, but I believe that's because I've always been selective.
For me, there has to be some sort of connection, not only physically but mentally.
I've been patient, through the lean times when I didn't think it was possible to find a person who ticks both boxes.
That's why if you averaged out the number of meets I've had over time on here it wouldn't add up to that many.
Over the last couple of years I've been on the verge of giving up on this site many times, but haven't. There has been the enigma that is the whirlwind called 'Arthur' and now I have met someone who I think I will call 'Geo'. If he reads this I hope that will make him smile....... and he smiles alot!
Although this is very new, I think expectations have been exceeded, on both sides (I hope!). A genuine physical and mental connection.
It won't be easy as he has a very demanding job and won't always be around, but I'd like to think we can meet up when he is around.
For me it has always been quality over quantity and compromise is part of life. I think it might be worth it.
Now I just have to rest and recouperate........
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Things could be looking up!
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Posted:Nov 27, 2013 11:49 am
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2014 2:04 pm
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Well fellow bloggers, I exchanged some emails on here and met someone last night for the first time.
To say it didn't quite go to plan is an underestimate, but not for the reasons you might imagine!
We agreed to meet for some dinner at 7.30pm. Not a problem normally as I start work early and finish early. What I couldn't plan for was a fire in a signal box at London Bridge station, which turned my journey home into a bit of a nightmare! What should take me just over an hour, took me 20 minutes short of 3 hours! This left me about 40 minutes to get ready.
I did suggest postponing, but was encouraged to stick to the original plan.
I'm glad I did! I was only 20 minutes late getting to the restaurant and we had a fab meal, sharing a very tasty bottle of red.
We got on very well and have plans to meet again. He'll only be around for the next year, but hey ho, let's live for the moment.
Just when I was on the verge of giving up on this site........
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Winter blues
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Posted:Nov 17, 2013 1:36 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2013 11:41 am
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Hello fellow bloggers. It's been a while since I posted. I'm afraid it's been a case of all work and no play! Plus sorting out various issues on the home front! There's always something that needs repairing, replacing or sifting through. This all takes time and the thing I want most to do most evenings is sleep!
My work has exploded into life in the last month and I don't know where the time is going! I can't believe we are only just over 6 weeks away from the end of another year!
Winter is never my favourite time of year. I hate the short days, the grey skies and all the leaves falling off the trees. I suppose we haven't had the worst of it yet and Spring seems a long way off.
Things would be ten times better if I could find a sexy reliable man to curl up on the sofa with to raise the temperature and the pulse! Sadly, I have nothing to report on that front and have little time to lament the fact! All steamy encounters are firmly locked in my head. If only I could unleash them! (With the right person, of course).
As ever, my quest to find my 'partner in crime' continues. It seems life is just too busy for most men too. I think we need to invest some time in this (you and me both!).
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Did I really have a holiday?
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Posted:Aug 3, 2013 6:47 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2024 8:50 am
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Hello Bloggers,
I'm feeling like my holiday is a distant memory and I'm back to the grindstone with a vengeance.
I work better if I have something to aim for, to look forward to. I'm wondering what the next thing will be.
I'm hoping to buy the freehold of my property, so think I may get bogged down in legal matters, but think it will be worth it in the long run.
A whirlwind visit from 'Arthur' gave some much needed stress relief this week, but I could do with someone to fill in the gaps!
The diet is progressing, so I'm hoping you will all see less me as the weeks go by........ literally!!!!!
Onwards and upwards! 
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Count your blessings
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Posted:Jul 21, 2013 1:45 am
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2013 11:52 am
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Hello fellow bloggers.
The wanderer returns from her travels, tanned with one white bit!  It was a lovely break and I now gird my loins for the return to work on Monday
Since I got home I have been reflecting on many things, being on this site being one of them. Whilst I know I don't look my age, I am now one of the older women here and getting messages from 20 somethings I find a little weird. They are a whole generation away from me and won't have the life experience I have. Peversely, men my own age don't always attract me. That is the conundrum!
I have also pondered on the fragility of the human body. It's not really fit for purpose and definitely has a few design faults! I still struggle sometimes with my dodgy ankle and this frustrates me.
However, my small frailty pales into insignificance when I think about people I have known for years, people that are part of my generation.
About 12 months ago, I lost a good friend to Melanoma. We had known each other since age 11 and she was only a month older than me. I think about her often and how we helped each other through some really difficult times (on both sides) at age 18.
Then yesterday I received a phone call from my oldest friend. We have known each other since age 5 and her family embrace me as one of their own. She had bumped into a mutual friend who we have known since about age 16. In fact, this friend and I worked together for a few years. Imagine my shock to find out she had a stroke recently and is now struggling to regain her speech and mobility. It has also severely impaired her eyesight. She, like I do, lives alone. It must be so scary. She is 6 days younger than me.
I also look around at acquaintances and friends of friends where cancer has struck their families. A vile disease that took my Mother in only 4 months. When will we defeat this killer?
When you are younger you don't look ahead, you think you are invincible, you think your family and friends will always be there. You don't think about how cruel life can be and that cancer does not discriminate on age, race or gender.
Both my oldest friend and I count ourselves extremely lucky to be relatively fit. I also think about my 2 brothers, one is 71 yrs old this week and the other is 62 in September.
So I'm thinking I should count my blessings for the comparatively good health I enjoy. I really must seize the day (carpe diem), for we never know what is around the corner do we?
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Hasta la vista, au revoir, bon voyage!
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Posted:Jul 10, 2013 1:57 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2013 6:42 pm
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Well fellow bloggers, I'm off on a much earned holiday today!
Only a week, but hey it's out of the the UK, so I can forget all about work, responsibilities, bills and generally any stresses.
Typically we have a heatwave here! But there's no doubt it will be HOT, HOT, HOT where I'm going.
Not expecting there to be any talent there, just to be pestered by the locals who will see UK passport in there eyes. Well when you're blonde and blue eyed you must seem exotic! Hahahaha! (I know they wouldn't bother otherwise!).
Looking forward to just chilling out, swimming, eating, drinking and generally not doing alot!
Will also be good to catch up with my good pal, who I'm meeting there. Her flight lands after mine, so I hope I can stay awake to greet her. We haven't met up for about 10 months, so will be great to see her again and show her around a resort I'm very familiar with.
So. don't miss me too much. In the famous words...... I'LL BE BACK!
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Has this site had its day?
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Posted:Jul 6, 2013 9:21 am
Last Updated:Jul 10, 2013 1:47 am
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I'm starting to feel that this site has had its day.
The quality of the messages I am getting are getting worse and worse. The ones I do get chatting too are generally time wasters.
I have carefully worded my profile, so there should be no misunderstandings about why I'm here and what I want.
With the exception of the ever elusive 'Arthur', I'm starting to wonder why I bother at all.
Friday for example. Should I share this or not? It's not particularly flattering to me, but it's typical of the type of person on here who thinks it's perfectly acceptable to treat a fellow human being with a total lack of respect, honesty and just basic good manners.
Having chatted to this person by email and text for some time, we finally agreed to meet for a quick drink after work, just to see if we wanted to take it any further. That's fine, not everyone you meet will 'float the other one's boat'. We had exchanged pics etc so there should have been no preconceptions about how each other looked.
Turning up later than I expected and waiting in totally the wrong place didn't bode well, but what happened next beggars belief.
While he was getting a drink at the bar, I sat down to reserve some seats. I turned my phone off so we could chat properly. Well, I waited and waited a bit more - the bar was busy.
When I finally decided to turn my phone on, he had text me saying he was unwell and thought it best to leave without a fuss! How stupid did I feel?
I couldn't let this go without finding out more. We exchanged a few texts and it was like texting a completely different person. Basically he was looking for someone to break his anal sex cherry and thought that might be me, but couldn't go through with asking it when we met.
At no point had he expressed any of these views with me prior to meeting. His texts were bizarre in the extreme. Total twat!
Fortunately, I was near to my route home, so got on the train thinking I'd had a very lucky escape. I even got home in time to watch the Murray tennis semi, so it wasn't a totally wasted evening.
Once I got over being annoyed by what had happened, I started laughing. What a prat, he will never know me or what experiences we might have had, if he had just been honest, trustworthy and reliable. Totally his loss!
So it got me thinking, I'm not sure I will stay on this site much longer. It's not all bad. Along the way I've met a handful of pretty decent guys. I guess they figured out staying on here wasn't what they wanted before I did.
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Easter bonk holiday!
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Posted:Mar 29, 2013 10:31 am
Last Updated:Jul 7, 2013 2:00 am
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Happy Easter everyone!
I'm on the 2nd day of a 5 day break from the daily grind and taking the cold weather out of the equation, I'm feeling positively Spring-like! At least there was some beautiful sunshine earlier today.
My health issues are all but resolved. I just have something non threatening that needs to be monitored. I can't tell you what a weight off my shoulders that is.
After some dastardly office politics in the last few days, I think I've manoevered the best possible outcome and the 'dread bitch from hell' hasn't got things all her own way! I don't want to play these stupid games at work! Let them think they have the victory, I know I have the moral high ground and can just get on with doing what I do best.... my job!
.... and then there's the norty, delicious, sexy 'Arthur'. Another explosive liaison and I'm grinning like the proverbial cat! We know how to push each other's buttons and the gratification is definitely mutual! Can't wait for the next time!
So the 'ups and downs' of life go on, but after the 'downs' there is a fantastic 'up'.
I'm trying hard to turn things on their head and get my life into a more positive mode. In some things I seem to be succeeding!
Watch this space.......
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Spring is nearly sprung!
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Posted:Mar 15, 2013 1:33 pm
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2013 6:24 am
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It's March 2013 and after a long, long Winter my thoughts are turning to Spring.
I'm leaving home in (almost) daylight and definitely returning home in daylight! The days are drawing out and it's not long till the clocks go forward.
I love Spring and the whole renewal of plants and trees as things start to grow again.
Then what happens? We have the coldest bally week of the Winter!!
Now I know when Spring does eventually arrive, this is the cue for my sap to rise! Although I still have a health issue to resolve, I know I will just feel better in Spring & Summer.
Now, about that rising sap.......
I certainly got an opportunity to enjoy the joys of Spring last night, spending a delightful few hours with the whirlwind known as 'Arthur'.
I always wondered if the excitement and passion would start to wane with familiarity but the opposite is true with him. It just gets better and better.
So parking the health issue to one side temporarily, as I like to say.....'Life sure has it's up and downs' and I like the 'ups and downs' with Arthur!
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Life sure has its ups and downs..... again!
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Posted:Feb 23, 2013 7:13 am
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2013 2:39 pm
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So, for the past 3 weeks I have not been well. I have had abdominal pain that neither my GP or the local A & E can diagnose the cause. I await an ultrasound scan.
When the pain was at its worst, I was seconds away from dialing 999, but the pain passed. When you live alone you only have your own instincts to rely on. I'm sure it's nothing serious, but it's been a difficult time. I just want to know what it is and get it sorted out!
Sometimes you just need something to perk you up, when you've had a bad number of days. Enter the elusive whirlwind that is 'Arthur'. I was supposed to meet him 2 weeks ago and was gutted that I didn't feel well enough to see him.
Well all that was resolved last night. After a few minor 'adjustments' shall we say, an explosive evening was had by all.
Life sure has it's ups and downs..... again!
I feel a theme developing here!!!
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