Seen off on holiday with a bang!
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Posted:Sep 4, 2012 8:21 pm
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2012 11:38 am
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Well dear readers, I'm about to set off for a well deserved break............a lovely week in Fuerteventura.
I'm like a at Xmas & very excited.
However, the icing on the cake was a delightful visit from my favourite 'sexy' man, the gorgeous 'Arthur'. In case anyone is wondering, that's a nickname & not his real name. It's done to protect the not so innocent! 
That we are an explosive combo is now beyond question and a great time was had by all!
Now I just have to wait for him to come explore my white bits, when I get back from my holiday! Mmmm 
Holiday & 'Arthur', life's pretty good right now! 
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The heat and the horn...
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Posted:Aug 11, 2012 3:55 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2012 9:40 am
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I don't know if it's just me, but when we get sultry evenings (sadly been too rare this Summer), my sap rises.
There's something about skin on skin, with all the windows open and the breeze blowing through the home, that really gets me going!
I am also a 'Friday' person. I love the feeling when you leave work after a busy week and the weekend stretches out before you.
Yesterday was a Friday like any other, until contact from the elusive 'Arthur'. He's a very norty boy really when it comes to keeping in contact. So it was the perfect opportunity for me to point out 'the error of his ways'! ?*
We do enjoy each other's company though. A time to relax and unwind with the chilled bottle of wine that he arrived with (good call on his part). Catching up and having the usual interesting conversations that we always have.
'Arthur' thinks I would be the perfect assistant to him at work. I did quip that he'd want me under or over the desk, rather than behind it! So when will he offer me the job?
.... but the cherry on the cake, the chance to fully enjoy each other's bodies........... windows open, breeze blowing through.
Sometimes the fantasy does become reality. Mmmmmm....
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Life still has it's ups & downs
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Posted:May 7, 2012 1:09 pm
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2012 3:55 am
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Well fellow bloggers, it's been yet another up & down weekend.
Firstly, the 'up'. A delightful Saturday evening spent with the delicious 'Arthur'. We're still pushing each others buttons, even if there are big gaps in contact. He's like a hyperactive whirlwind, that blows in and then back out again. I don't think he stops to catch breathe, but his energy is infectious.
Then the 'down'....... Sunday, I was struck down with a really bad stomach bug that wiped me out for the whole day. Just as well it didn't start Saturday!! How embarrassing would that have been???
I still feel weak and all my joints ache, but as bad as I've felt, I can still smile when I think back to Saturday.
So 'Arthur', till next time....... I'll be back to full fitness by then!
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Life has it's up and downs.
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Posted:Mar 2, 2012 4:49 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2012 1:09 pm
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Life sure does have it's ups and downs.
I've had a busy couple of weeks on the work front & a few issues with my dodgy ankle. I've had a few grumpy episodes and have been ridiculously tired.
I was so glad when I left work tonight, looking forward to recharging my batteries over the weekend.
Then, right out of the blue I heard from the deliciously sexy, norty, gorgeous, 'Arthur'! That sure put a smile on my face.
A couple of enjoyable hours spent together and I felt rejuvinated! We sure do push all the right buttons for each other.
Life sure does have it's ups and downs.....
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It may be Winter outside......
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Posted:Feb 3, 2012 11:38 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2012 4:47 am
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So, we're stuck in the middle of a cold snap and I hate the cold! You'd be forgiven for thinking that it's an eskimo coming towards you, if you saw me walking down the street! Not a particularly sexy look!
I guess alot of people struggle post Xmas and I am no exception. At least the days are drawing out, so I leave work in daylight.
I can't lie when I say I have been struggling and feeling less than sexy, but it's amazing how things can turn around.
In previous blogs I have mentioned 'Arthur'. He is the one shining light amongst the sheer onslaught of inappropriate email I receive on this site. Guys just don't get me and I thought my profile was pretty clear!
Anyway, back to 'Arthur'. I can't deny he ticks every horny box for me. Handsome, sexy, intelligent, articulate, great eyes and a good bum! Insanely busy and committed to his job, contact has been random. But the main thing is, he is reliable. He does what he says he will do.
To my delight, he contacted me earlier this week and we arranged to meet last night.
The couple of hours before we met were a flurry of texts, heightening sexual tension and glorious anticipation. When we were finally face to face, it was explosive.
The sexual chemistry between us is off the scale! Even kissing (something very important to me)is the perfect combination. I joked that our lips must be a good match!
He also stimulates my mind (another box ticked). We talk about many things, including our ambitions. He even tries to motivate me, but not in a patronising way. I love the way he is so fearless, yet it's confidence, not arrogance.
Oh boy.... I find myself seriously in 'lust' and can't deny it. I even quite like him as a person!
So 'Arthur' till next time...... keep it warm for me!
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December 2011 - Annual report
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Posted:Dec 26, 2011 3:05 am
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2012 3:51 am
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So, that's another Xmas over and done with. Never my favourite time of year.
This is the second year I have spent the day alone & I don't mind my own company.
Santa didn't grant my wish and leave me a man under the tree, but hey, I thought it was probably a wish too far! Maybe I just wasn't quite 'good' enough!
As the year draws to a close (how quickly it has flown by), I reflect on 2011. Not a spectacular year by any stretch of the imagination, but I survived it.
I managed to hold on to my job in August and enjoyed my time away in September. I guess that's the good and the bad of the year.
The flat downstairs is now sold and await with trepidation to see who moves in. It's been SO quiet for so long, I hope I get decent neighbour(s) this time. I really can't be so unlucky to get awful people again, can I?
I reflect on LesbianPersonals also. The group I co-moderate (Pandora's Box) still brings me light relief from some of the crap on this site.
Then there are the guys. I have been on this site over 6 years and have been fortunate to meet some men I would never normally have run into. Some I am still in contact with, even if we don't meet anymore.
I am good friends with one in particular (we originally met way back in 2005)and recently advised him on a job application. As he was successful, a bottle of red wine came my way. I don't think we'll ever have the physical relationship we had, but I value the friendship that came out of it, and that's just fine by me.
Then there is the elusive 'Arthur', so hard to arrange another meeting with. I can't deny I am totally in "lust" with him. Still, what will be, will be. I think there's still unfinished business there!
The strangest phenomena of this site is the number of guys that seem to come back to me. By that I mean, even if things have fizzled out and time has passed, they suddenly contact me again. Once seen, never forgotten eh? (Even if one of them does live in Amsterdam now!).
I've given up trying to analyse why this "out of the blue" contact happens. Maybe it's just timing, maybe they remember some great times?  It's hard to decide whether to be flattered or disappointed!
So, it's onwards into 2012. Olympic year and I really need to get some snogging practice in if I'm going to win Gold!
I'm not one for resolutions, but I do know that being fussy and discerning about who I meet is the right thing for me. I spend many nights alone, but better that than some souless coupling for the sake of it. This might sell itself as a sex site, but I for one still believe I am worth more than some of the crass offers I get.
Now all I need to do is fast forward to Spring and wait for my sap to rise!
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The good, the bad & the far from ugly!
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Posted:Oct 12, 2011 2:08 am
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2011 9:54 am
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Hello fellow LesbianPersonals'ers!
I am always amazed at the twists and turns of life and how things can change in an instant.
I returned from my recent holiday in a great frame of mind & people telling me how well I looked and how relaxed. I was tackling work in a much less stressed fashion.
However, last week I was travelling to work & my neck was a little painful. I thought it was from the air con on the train. By early afternoon I was in so much pain, I had to go home. It turns out I have torn/strained a muscle in my neck/shoulder.
I finally saw my GP yesterday & am now on strong painkillers, but they make me drowsy. I also have to go for an ECG. He said my pulse is irregular & wants it checked out. It's just a precaution, so I'm not going to worry.
I've no idea how this neck thing happened. I didn't injure myself in any way. It's just one of those things.
I have to say, I don't "do ill" very well & it's frustrating not being able to do much.
So, that's the bad.
The good? Well, I am back in contact with the aforementioned "Arthur". A complete pleasure. We get on very well & it's spooky how alike we think.
What a lovely (if slightly more gentle)evening we had & a big thank you to him for the massage! Oh ............and the help with the duvet!
The physical attraction is strong & hopefully mutual!
Oh yes.... and he is far from ugly. Those eyes...mmmmm!
Sometimes from all the nonsense of this site, you find a diamond in the rough!
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October 2011
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Posted:Oct 2, 2011 4:49 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2011 7:37 am
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I decided today that I'm going to try and blog more regularly, but sticking to the plan isn't one of my strengths, so time will tell. I am more likely to meander left of plan, but I hope that makes me a tad more interesting!
So, the holiday and how did it go? Well I landed at the airport full of mixed feelings. Travelling solo, I could have made the biggest mistake of my life, but I'm glad to report that wasn't the case. Although not for the reasons I imagined.
A friend had promised to pick me up at the airport. As he is based there, he also promised to show me around & then take me back to the airport for the return trip.
Well, some friend he turned out to be. He did indeed taxi me to and from the airport, but other than that I saw him once only. Just as well I hadn't relied on that! It just shows that talk is cheap and people often don't say what they mean or mean what they say!
The hotel exceeded my expectations & whilst others might and did complain, it was perfect for my needs. A beautiful view of the sea and the magnificent swimming pool, meant each day it was a joy to go out on the balcony. I also had a prime spot to see the most magnificent sunsets.
It was considerably hotter than I expected, with the island experiencing an unseasonably warm autumn. This meant I didn't get out and about as much as I'd planned, but that was fine. When I analysed it, that wasn't the main reason for the holiday.
When I look back I had at least 4 years baggage to clear. Spending 13 days just chilling out, was the perfect 'mind dump'. I have returned in a much clearer frame of mind & colleagues have remarked how well I look and how much more relaxed and happy I am. So, objective achieved.
I was also fortunate to meet some really nice people, who took the 'waif and stray' under their wings. It restored my faith in human nature & proved to me that I can travel alone. Catching up with a good friend of mine at the start of the holiday was also a bonus, so I thank her for her generosity & time. (You know who you are and I love ya!).
I now can't wait to plan the next trip away. The therapeutic value of getting away from it all just can't be measured. Whilst it would be lovely to travel with someone (especially a sexy man, haha), if that isn't possible I'll just go it alone again!
As for this site, well I have to decide whether to renew my Gold subscription soon. I also still hope that my Mr Reliable will make an appearance.
Until then, I will continue to be my honest and straightforward self, in the hope that it will eventually be appreciated.
Now, the sun is shining, so I must get out in the garden and top up the tan!
Till next time, fellow bloggers..... xx
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Life in August 2011
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Posted:Aug 12, 2011 10:08 am
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2012 1:02 pm
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Hello fellow bloggers or at least fellow blog readers! I've neglected my blog for too long and it has been pointed out to me!
So, life in August 2011? Well, alot of work related stress, but fortunately I think I'm through the worst of it now. I had to apply for my own job, which made me quite angry. There were ten of us and only 9 jobs!!!
On Monday (8th), I finally found out I was safe!  I didn't want any congratulations or "well dones", as one of my close colleagues was the one told there wasn't a job for her. It was most unpleasant watching it all unfold. I just feel a sense of relief, but it doesn't make me any safer, as there will be more staff reductions made in the next 3 years.
But for now, I did what had to be done & I'm ok!
I can't continue this blog entry without giving an honorable mention to 'Arthur' (he knows who he is! ). Getting to know him through this site has been the most unexpectedly delightful treat! Someone on my wavelength, who can talk for England, much like me! (..... and he's darn sexy too!).
So 'Arthur', you told me I should write more blogs eh? This is a start. Although I generally only blog when I feel I have something to say!
The immediate future? Well, a holiday in Cyprus in September. A long overdue break and much needed! A time to chill, see the sights and recharge my batteries, which are beyond low!!!
Hopefully, get to grips with all the changes that the situation at work has wraught. This should allow me to get some perspective on that element of my life!
.... and to 'Arthur', I can only say one thing..... 'encore une fois'!!!! (please!) I can't wait!
I may have much more to blog about in future! 
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Spring is sprung - April 2011
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Posted:Apr 3, 2011 5:57 am
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2013 5:08 am
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So it seems I have yet again neglected my blog. I thought today should be the day I did something about it!
So April 2011 finds me in much better shape domestically & professionally. Many of the stresses and strains of the last 12 months have resolved themselves, one way or another. So that's good, right?
Personally, I am still very much running solo. This site continues to frustrate me in many ways & I know I'm not alone in that.
When I finally get chatting to the few people that pique my interest, unreliability always seems to raise its head.
I'm not one of those demanding kind of women, it's not my nature. But I do have certain standards & expectations. I don't think it's to much to expect people to do what they say they are going to do.
There is much enthusiasm from men on this site, but when you get down to the crux of the matter (i.e. agreeing to meet), why can't guys get their act together??
We all know we are basically here to meet for sex. I am fussy and tend to be interested in guys who can also stimulate my mind. But lately, just arranging to meet up has been frustrated by indecision, changes of minds & plain downright rudeness of last minute cancellations.
We are all busy people, but organising your life so you can meet up with someone shouldn't be that difficult, should it? I'm not just sat here waiting for when someone thinks they can fit me into their busy schedule! I find the lack of thought for my circumstances quite insulting.
'I'd like to meet you, but with the minimum of inconvenience to myself' seems to be the attitude of many men. I've said it before, but a bit of effort on their part wouldn't go amiss!
I'm not looking for true love, just some diverting times, without the hassles of convention. Even that much openness appears to be under appreciated. It seems to pay to have low expectations and that way you are rarely disappointed!
More and more I find myself here just for the Group I co-moderate. I've made some good friends & it soothes me from the more negative aspects of this site.
..... and maybe there are some reliable men out there???
At least there is Spring & Summer to look forward to. My very favourite times of year. Now all I need to find is that elusive "Mr Reliability"!!!
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Vague wanderings of the brain in September 2010
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Posted:Sep 25, 2010 12:57 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2011 5:28 am
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I seem to have neglected my blog for some time now, I guess I haven't really had anything to say!
I read back some of my previous entries on here and I suppose not a lot has changed! No surprise there really!
Another Summer has come and gone & I'm still largely flying solo!
Work has settled down after all the frenetic work of moving office, although my new role still isn't clearly defined. I have put my point of view across to management & they appear to have taken it on board. Just a few niggles by people who seem intent on holding me back to iron out!
I would still like to move house. I have invested in my property this summer by having a substantial amount of work done. It's eaten into the savings, but looks fab. I hope this will contribute to making the place more attractive to potential buyers.
What I really have missed is a proper holiday. I crave to lie in the sun and hear the sound of the sea. I hit a very dark place a few weeks ago, due a nasty incident provoked by my idiot neighbours. That took me a few days to bounce back from, but in my usual fashion, I picked myself up, dusted myself off & started again!
I also attended the funeral of my best friend's Mum, a couple of weeks ago. That was emotional, as I've known my friend and her family since I was 5 years old. How did my friend & I get to this age? (and does it mean we have to behave like proper adults now?).
Problems with my stupid ankle still flare up from time to time and this has been a particularly bad week. I don't think it will ever really go away. I know I need to shed a few pounds still & that doesn't help.
I have been lucky though, as I have made a handful of very good friends from this site. Their support has been invaluable through the darker moments (both emotional & practical support). You know who you are and for that I thank you and send you all warm hugs and a snog!
I'm trying to drum up some enthusiasm to kick start contact with some of the guys who message me, but as usual it's all rampant enthusiasm on their part & then no follow through! Hello guys........... when did you stop being prepared to make a bit of effort!!!
When will guys realise that "many a good tune is played on an old fiddle"!!
So it's still "head up, tits out" and onwards to face the Winter. Let's just get Xmas out of the way first! Not my favourite holiday by any means!
In Del Boy fashion, maybe next year I'll be a millionaire! Mind you, I say every year will be better than the last.
So come on 2011..... prove me right for once!!!
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The Grand Plan for this week!
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Posted:Apr 26, 2010 4:15 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2011 3:43 am
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So, I have the whole week off!
The grand plan is to have a complete spring clean of my home! I have already been throwing stuff out with gay abandon this morning!
I have a lunch date Wednesday..... and I rarely get invited out!
All in all, this could be a good week!
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Out with the old and in with the new!
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Posted:Apr 18, 2010 4:13 am
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2010 2:41 am
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So it's April 2010. Time to tick a few things off the list!
1. Office move completed Saturday 17th!
2. PC died and new laptop purchased!
3. The sun is shining and the lighter nights are here!
Now all I need to find is that sexy man!
The next few weeks are going to be ALL about me!!!  .... and I don't care about being selfish!
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