OMG Isn't IT shriveled up and gone away at his age. What is he thinking about, some times a HEAD has a mind of its own. There is a biological, physical age mental age and I'm ageing saying this. Yes I do like to play in many ways with friends. My emphasis at AFF is the friend with letting the relationship find its way. Looking for open low key exploration with out drama or heavy drugs. I have a massage room and enjoy giving a Swedish or deep tissue massage. We can have a "happy" ending if you like. It is not a tantric massage, as have too much respect for tantric to call it that. I work out 6 days a week and summer weight is about 165 and winter weight can be 175. I do not smoke other then an occasional toke, I do enjoy martinis. I am flexible in schedule but usually working on my Art in the evening or Argentine Tango. I do not watch TV .... not referencing transvestites but could enjoy their chi. I do have a daily meditation practice and love being in the woods. My rescue border collie takes me for wanders in the woods. Some would say I am sapiosexual. I say to describe me is to negate me as we are in constant change. I am just discovering this site and not techy no disrespect to the technology ones. We are all yin and yang energy so lets explore and celebrate our beingness.

My Ideal Person What is important for us to understand and respect is we are all in constant change so "what I am looking for" is subjective and subject to change. I do know I do not like pain or potty. I insist on my being super clean and my partner if there is anal exploration. I enjoy kissing a great deal and yes of course licking and sucking so not interested in "wham bam thank you maam" Ideally I'd like Not multiple partners but more of a FWB relationship but obviously we start with the first smile. I'm not concerned about age as have come to see the ageism that exists in our culture. Ideally someone who is aware and cares for their physical form. Yes I am attracted to intelligence but a kind heart is more important. Your monetary status is of little value, ,,, pun as have been with the rich and poor and we are all the same at some time. Be safe and have an open mind and heart.