I'm a kind, exclusively straight, educated, professional guy. I'll be honest here, ultimately I'm looking for a new FWB! Ideally I'd like to find someone who, like me, is also seeking no drama, mutual enjoyment with no strings attached. As you can tell by my profile, I am married, and no, she does not know, so discretion is of the utmost importance. Still reading...., I'm happy to hear that. So why am I here you ask? Well, 5+ years ago my wife solely decided that intimacy was no longer needed in our marriage. After trying EVERY avenue, I've had no success changing this. Finally, 2 years ago, I discreetly met a girl for mutual NSA enjoyment who then moved away. Then I met a great girl on CL, who I have been with for almost a year now, but sadly she has found a relationship that she wants to pursue with another man which leaves me looking again for a new play friend. So, as I have a little experience with this :), I know what NSA means, I'm respectful of boundaries, and very discreet, I am most certainly not some freak or stalker whatsoever, you have no worries there. Of course then, I want someone is is also discreet and NOT looking for a long term relationship. Ongoing casual with one per is certainly my preference mind ya. So am I cheating? Hmmm... not really sure how to answer that. Is it reaable to demand monogamy, and then withhold sex?? Hmm.... All I ask that you not judge me, if I were still on intimate terms with my significant other, I wouldn't be here, it's that simple. If you're good with the above, it would be great to hear from you. I am looking for something exclusive, I won't see anyone else if you won't, unless you are married as well, and then that would be the exception. While I play safe, I obviously can't afford to bring anything home on the off chance that my wife does suddenly want sex. So I'm willing to get the check done and have the papers to prove to you I'm STD free and HIV-, and I ask the same of you. I don't want to sound old fashioned, but I think when we know we're both clean it makes for a lotta sparks when we get together. I hope this reates with some of you :) \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\**this is his former FWB writing now** Paul is a great guy, and if it weren't for me finding a relationship with another man, the kind of guy I have been looking for, I would still be with him. I however, could never have a relationship with Paul even if he was single again. He has s, and does not meet the height requirement I look for in a guy I would date. Ladies, he is looking for just one, long term, FWB, not a one time thing, but not a GF either. He can't really take you out on dates, but he will pleasure you as much as you can handle when you are together. Trust me.

My Ideal Person A intimate friend who appreciates my situation, and understands that I've chosen the middle road between 2 selfish alternatives. Someone who wants to share with me, that which I no longer can have at home. Please note though, I am NOT looking to change my situation or yours.

One more thing... Ladies, I do need a playfriend that can host, during the daytime, week days. I'm afraid I can't host, as I can't bring you to my office (fun as that would be... it could be career limiting!). The closer you are to downtown the better of course, but i can travel a little

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, able to discuss anything!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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