Intentionally letting gold status lapse for now, so no longer able to respond to messages. Too many bots, inaccurate profile views, fake profiles, and cam girls here, and I'm looking for something real and tangible. If you're actually inclined to get in touch with me, there are better ways to do so than here (see my status), and I'm more than happy to share pics if you do. Until then, I'm just kickin' it at nomadd43, but also several other common channels because that one sucks now. Getting this out of the way now... I'm married, with a permanent hall pass on the non-negotiable condition of absolute discretion (hence the blurred photos, sorry, but happy to send clear ones upon request). Also, my role as a caregiver affects my availability, so flexibility and patience are appreciated. Now that that's out of the way, I am a real live human person looking for other real live human people for safe, discreet, fulfilling encounters. Nerdy, geeky, goofy, enthusiastic, DDD free non-smoker who loves words and can keep up a conversation. Outwardly polite, respectful, and courteous, and will never send or post dick pics (even as a guy I don't understand that one), with an, intensely sexual side that longs to be unleashed. If you allow me to reveal that side, you will find I am a passionate, giving, enthusiastic lover that desires more than anything to give pleasure, and will do all I can to ensure your satisfaction (it gets me off to get you off). Usually prefer not to mention it right away, but I have been told I am exceptionally talented with my mouth and hands, and that I should mention it right away... so, I'll guess we'll see if that was good advice. I do have long hair, but am clean, well groomed, cut, and have had a vasectomy, but still play safe.

My Ideal Person Looking for other real live human people to actually meet in person. Open to just about any kind of encounter. There is no one "ideal," I love the variety and length and width and breadth of the whole spectrum of real live people and experiences. If I show as available on IM, please feel free to drop me a line, or send me a message (also available via various other channels under a slightly different user name).