Most of my friends would say I have an easy-going personality. I am not considered pushy or aggressive when it comes to sex. My attitude is that if everyone doesn't want it, it won't be any fun anyway. I want a partner who is at least somewhat height/weight proportional. I don't go to bars a lot. I prefer partying in more private places when I'm involved in sexual encounters. I like my partners to talk about what they want in the bedroom and their expectations and desires regarding what they need/want from our playtime (after all that is why they use the term "partners"). I love sex and enjoy casual relationships based on sex, but I'm also interested in a friend to hang with, swing with, and generally play with. In the bedroom, pretty much anything goes with me except pain. Some of my favorite positions are 69, doggy, spooning, female on top, and of course missionary. Favorite places include kitchens, showers, bedrooms, floors, countertops, public places, outdoors,....well, you get the idea.

My Ideal Person I am looking for females who enjoy uninhibited sex.
I am straight. I am looking for someone who can be discreet because I have a professional career and I prefer to keep my private life away from my professional life.
The only taboo I have in the bedroom is extreme pain, but light bondage could be interesting.
As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is anywhere that turns my partner on.
I am not married, but married women add excitement to a relationship.
One sexual fantasy I've always had is a FMF threesome. I guess about every man has that one.
My feelings regarding one-night stands are that they are ok, but I prefer friends as lovers as my first choice.
Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage - is very enjoyable as part of many sexual encounters, but raw spontaneous sex is also very exciting when both partners are hungry for each other.
Foreplay cannot be emphasized enough. I like my partner to be so aroused that she is panting for penetration before I enter her. That takes lots of foreplay before going to penetration, but is worth every minute of it when she is so excited that she is talking dirty to me and telling me how much she needs and wants it.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Delbert McClinton, Nora Jones, Eva Cassidy, Van Morrison, Elton John

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I will be happy to share one over the phone or in person. You
just have to tell me that it would excite you to hear it!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, Watching porn with my partner and duplicating what we watch

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No celebrities. I just see people on the street that I find
attractive and get lost in a fantasy about having sex with
them without even knowing them.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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